I live in a different time zone and have a busy work schedule but she will tend to text everyday day at all hours and if I don’t respond she will make me feel guilty by sending texts like “is everything ok?” Then I feel anxious then and end up back into the cycle of never ending messages. She’s also 15 years older than me so I already have difficulty talking about anything meaningful as I can't really relate to her like people my age. She will also gossip about her friends people I don’t know and it makes me feel awkward and I never know what to say to her
I actually dealt with someone that I discovered was just narcissism and didn’t realize it until I cut off communication with her. Plus everybody else did the same thing with me. A lot of people have trauma and often feel like they did something wrong at any given moment. However, if you are experiencing this just let her know what’s going on. Some people need others to talk to in life and you’re the only person they feel that’s there for them. They don’t know they getting on your nerves, they probably feel like you’re enjoying the communication. Also it’s important to establish boundaries. It’s always people that will treat you bad but make you seem like the suspect and their the victim. She is probably unaware it’s over excessive because it’s normal to her
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text "i am busy, but i will get back to responding to you after work!" then you choose if you even want to after work.
don't feel guilty to set boundaries.
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Ignore Her Messages. She Will Then Get The Helpful Hint. lolxxoo
Someone keeps asking this repetitively. It's a small site and noticeable. So I'll give the same opinion.
Reply back once, in bulk, at the end of the day.
tell her stop. I don't think you can hide behind your shyness. Just solve the problem
Tell her you’re too busy to keep texting back all day and don’t really have a lot to say or just tell her exactly what you told us, don’t be shy about it, it’s easier through text anyway
Answer when you feel like it, but not more than once a day.
in my opinion i totally understand your frustration but tbh i wish my uncle had communication with me, my uncle lives in a different time zone and country and does have a busy work schedule as well.
write message if continued then block.
Just ignore her texts & don't reply.
grow a pair or suck it up
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