Am I the A-hole for sexting my ex who's in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

So a few months ago I got back in contact with my ex. We became friends again after 2 years of not talking. She's currently in a relationship with this guy who came just after our break up (so almost 2 years).

Last night I came home pretty drunk and before I went to bed me and my ex were texting eachother about some things that happened that day. We were talking about how she didn't have any intimacy and sexual satisfaction with her current boyfriend and started talking about how we were on a sexual level back when we were a couple... things ended up getting pretty heated.. I got carried away in the conversation that led into sexting with my ex, who has a boyfriend.

I have no emotional attraction to her whatsoever and would never ever get into a relationship with her again. I just love sexting and the excitement that comes from it, but now I feel extremely guilty and bad. I know she and her boyfriend are in a rough patch right now, so I feel like I kinda took advantage of that.

Am I the A-hole?

YES

NO

[varan69]

Its like 50-50 here. You are cuz u knew about her relationship and her sex is a bit down and she is the other 50 cuz she is in a relationship and didn't give a fuck about him haha. So both of u are a holes. Sorry to harsh?

[Anonymous]

They aren't married and you aren't the one in the relationship. That's all her issue. For all you know they never even officially agreed to be exclusive.

[Slayerrrrrrr]

Hell nah fuck that honkey, and his momma. You hit that first my guy.

[Hangry06]

No. You are not the one in a relationship

[Anonymous]

A bit, but she is surely more.

[Anonymous]

Everybody is an asshole in the situation.

[Anonymous]

Trolll