Caught boyfriend sexting a girl, should I end it?

[Anonymous]

Last week I asked my boyfriend of 3 years and 6 months if he had been talking to any girls he said yes one but not recently a girl from his past.

Anyway last night i went through his message yes I know this was wrong on my part however I found this one conversation with this girl. They were flirting she was sending him lingerie photos then they said they would take it to snap chat for more privacy anyway this happened for about two conversations then the talking ended around two months ago. I confronted my boyfriend and at first he was angry at me for checking his phone but then he said he knows what he did was wrong he doesn't know why he did it, he doesn't want to hurt me, that he wants me not her and he felt so guilty afterwards that's why he got rid of her. I feel so hurt and sick thinking of the convo where he's asking for more photos. They never met up even though she asked.

Should I dump him or give a second chance?

[Anonymous]

if he apologize and is really repenting and if you really love him then try giving him another chance although you have to warn him it is his last chance if he repeat it again. just end it. he obviously did not learn a lesson from his past actions. if he is bored with your relationship try spicing things more like exploring things and finding things you haven't done together yet. probably like phone sex, sex with top on, cosplay, soft bdsm if you bothe want (just a suggestion). dating to other places, start making lunches, aside from the regular dates you do try exploring more together so as to not let the sparks you both have rust.

[BrittBratt2416]

Dump him. Cause if he only wanted you, he wouldn't be sexting other girls. Guys always try to justify getting mad when you go through their phone and find some shady shit but thats because they know they fucked up and got caught. A lot of girls wouldn't have to do this if you just.. ugh told us from the beginning? All you have to do is come up to us and say hey " I want to see other women" will say deuces and go our separate ways, but then that would eliminate their options. Dump him and dump him quick.

[Spongebob1235]

i would end the relationship personally. in fact, he has already checked out by doing that.

i wouldn't start trying to make our relationship better and work on improving anything if someone thought so little of me to do that.

trust would be shattered. there already is little trust for you to be going through his things. it sounds like its going to fail one way or another. relationships dont last if there is no trust

[taleets]

the relationship is kinda already over don't listen to his sob story

[NightlyCreature]

sounds like trust is a problem in your relationship, and a relationship with no trust can't work, my advice talk it over, and if after you do you feel you can still trust each other, then give it a chance, but if after there are still doubts then it's better to part ways without hurting each other more

[Kiels01]

This relationship is over, you are going through his private stuff which in honesty i would dump a girl straight off if she did that to me.
He is talking and sending/receiving flirty texts/pictures!
There is wrong on both sides and no trust at all so its time to say goodbye and move forward.

[mrinalashesh007]

You love him or not? if yes you may want to give him another chance.. but let me ask you.. why haven't you ask him the reason behind still keeping those pictures of her in lingerie if he anyway, has felt guilty and stopped talking to he girl? Ask him.. you may give him another chance.. but be watchful

[LovingNerd]

Forgiveness is a tough cookie to swallow. question is, have you ever entertained the idea, in your mind or thoughts, of sizing up another guy whole with your boyfriend. if there is any of the slightest chance you did, even a slight inkling of "wow, that guys hot", forgiveness is probably in your best interest. That doesn't mean you stop being vigilant around your boyfriend, it just means he has room to improve and demonstrate his devotion to you.

[Anonymous]

Give him a second chance and give him more sex. You should be making sure he has no jam left in his jar to spread around. It's your fault.

[Anonymous]

Before you rush to dump him, just realize you may spend another 3.5 years in a relationship with another guy before you wind up in the same place. So maybe take a holistic view of your relationship with this guy before you chuck it all over this incident.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

As much as you don't want to i would move on, if he truly loves you he shouldn't sexting other girls. My opinion i would move on or give him
a taste of his own medicine by taking a break from him for a while.

[serious]

Sexting mostly indicates that he might have an intention to cheat, so practically speaking you should end it. However end it with him face to face and not be text or any other means.

[JustCallMeLeon]

Hmmm. I consider sexting cheating. So to me its like he was having an affair but they didn't have sex, yet. I dont know what i would do. Tough call. Maybe forgive but from now on everyone plays with his cards open?

[genericname85]

yeah, you should end it. mostly cause you have a problem with privacy fist. learn to respect a persons privacy first before you try getting with someone.

[IBCrazyx3]

end that shit right now, no matter the circumstances never ever ever ever allow a cheater to just get away with it

[RocketScientist107]

he is not satisfied with your texting. improve it and fix the relationship rather than "use and throw" attitude

[girlinthisworld]

Dump, him definitely. Sounds like he's lost interest and he'll definitely cheat on you again.

[sanam_1]

improve ur side dear.. if he is texting other means there is lack of love in between u both..

[VickyRom26]

leave him , he can fuck u right so he no need of other girls simple princess

[Chaddington]

he should dump you, you dont trust each other anymore

[Silentvoices]

Just ask your conscience, people here just types what they think not what you need

[curiousTexan]

If he is sexting with another he's not really your boy friend. So there is nothing to end.

[Anonymous]

Maybe he's trying to set up a threesome for your birthday.

[Anonymous]

i can't forgive cheating if i were you i would just end it

[10dsw]

Yep. He's lost interest in you

[depeche2015]

yeah he's cheating and that's a deal breaker