How can someone go 27 years of his life never having a real girlfriend?

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I am not asexual. I am not gay. Yet, I have never had a real girlfriend. I am crazy about women, yet I have been single all my life.

I want me and a woman to be each other's first loves.

Is it normal to be this old and never had a real girlfriend? How common or rare is this?

FTnWo · Accepted Answer

I don't know how common or uncommon it is but it sounds to me like what you may be looking for you may get lucky and find a more likely candidate in church maybe, you just gotta get one in your sights man and you just need to be friendly to her ask her questions and get to know her maybe on Sundays when you get a chance before or after church and then ask her out on a date, you don't want one of these loose broads that puts out the first time you tell her hi because you may get more then what you were expecting plus yeah nevermin I forgot you want a Virgin and that's why I said church because that's a place where you would be more likely to find that.

CharlesScene · Accepted Answer

Don't worry about it. Continue to be yourself, be confident, and go out and try.

You will get a girlfriend my guy, I would say, just not worry about it, I wasn't looking for a relationship at the time I met my girlfriend and she was the one who actually made the first move. Or go out man, discover some new hobbies, go to coffee shops and bars and go meet woman, and go get reject by as many women needed till you finally get a yes.

I don't know if you watch baseball or not, but you got to fail 7 out of 10 times to bat a.300 and in baseball, that makes you an all star.

Be yourself, and put yourself out there

Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

Being quiet, shy not assertive with women could mean you are out of the running when other men are.
If you're not a good conversationalist. If you're not self confident. If all you do is work and you don't have a sense of fun and adventure. These factors could limit your chances with women. Having a decent job, some interesting hobbies helps too.

dustybiker · Accepted Answer

Self-sabotage? Stuck in a pattern?  Have you thought about talking to someone? They might be able to point out what you are doing wrong.

ChiPaPa · Answer

I see it didn't work out with the latest girl. Dude. You're far too hung up on being her first. Especially since by our age (I'm only three years older) most people have had at least one partner. Everyone has a past. Accept it.

Curmudgeon · Answer

Bad luck is real. Been there, done that at your age. Just focus on self improvement, even a teeny bit at a time.

exitseven · Answer

When you limit yourself to only women with no dating past this is the result.

IHateBeingaMan · Answer

another reminder of how i have always resented nature

Anonymous · Answer

That's why there are times I have hated having been born with a penis

Soleil8000 · Answer

Get out of your craphole

Anonymous · Answer

Ha it’s ok I’m just shy

Anonymous · Answer

He is a loser.

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