I get the part that feelings can develop but what if they never develop. Ever.
It’s torturous imagining spending a life with someone I don’t love.
Makes you really wonder how arranged marriages work huh?
Even people in love fall out of love, they usually don't get divorced though. Settling is something people do when they just don't think they can do better.
We do it in all aspects of our lives. A lot of people settle for their jobs cause they can't imagine doing better.
Ultimately she won't be happy and eventually will likely leave him anyway (it won't last). This is actually pretty common I think to with women sadly. They "settle" because he's a "good guy" or something but have no romantic attraction for him. No way to have a relationship. Ladies if it was reversed, would you want a guy to "settle" on you? Or someone that actually cares about you? Please think of this when you are thinking about "settling".
Because a person may not be great for you but most days finding a good one is challenge enough.
I cannot possibly imagine "settling" for someone. Luckily, that is not the situation for me, as I am very much in love with my SO.
Thank you for MHG
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