Would you care if your boyfriend/girlfriend has a live in roommate of the opposite gender? What if the roommate is homosexual?

[Aerissa_Jade]

I would not care, I would trust them.

I would not want them living with someone of the opposite gender at all.

I would be okay with that arrangement, so long as the roommate isn't hetero.

I would care as gay men can still have sex with women.

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+1 y

I'm glad so many said they would trust them. I have a gay friend who moved in after his last breakup, he will be leaving soon already has a lease on a new place. Just friends, helping him out but there is no way in my place (kind of small) that we don't see each other getting dressed and stuff.

He has been paying rent to me too, thousand dollars a month which is great.

[yucel_eden]

I’m a landlord, I own my home and I rent out a couple of bedrooms.


There is a female in the house renting a room from me and my ex girlfriend I just broke up with was worried at times and it annoyed me.


If someone wants to cheat, this will only make it easier. A cheater won’t stop at nothing and I wasn’t cheating.


You either trust them and stay with them and if you don’t trust them leave them.

[Zenpanda]

If I don't rust my partner with other people, I shouldn't date them.
It's that easy to me.

[DizzyDesii]

Yea i wouldn't be too comfortable with that unless its a family member

[Anonymous]

I've actually known someone who did this. It can never work without other things coming into play. She lived with a guy friend but got curious and they hooked up. Anything can trigger this, alcohol, a bad day, it's risky for both and riskier for people wanting to be in a relationship with either.

[KostasKouvalis]

Probably, I'm the jealous type. I wouldn't want a gay in my house either because he might try to do it with ME 😂😂😂

But two's company, three's a crowd anyways, so I'd rather it just be me and her.

[Aerissa_Jade]

I should of clarified better, not living with my boyfriend. He has his own place and I have my own, but I take on a male roommate.

[KostasKouvalis]

Oh yeah, no way in hell would I trust that. Would make me wonder why you don't want to just room with me?

[Aerissa_Jade]

I think that people that move in together, like their married before they are married... when things get rough, one of them and just leave, rather than stay and work it out.

Its better to wait until married to move in together.

I am okay with sleep overs. Having someone around all the time can be rough until things are more established and strengthened.

You can tell I've tried, I've tried literally every type of relationship trick method and yet, I'm obviously the problem somehow... I am the constant.

[KostasKouvalis]

You don't think you should know what it's like living with them before you make that kind of commitment?

I had a girl tell me once, "If I knew what it's like living with him, before we started dating, I never would have dated him"

And yeah, they broke up 😂

Sleep over with you must be fun 😂

Yeah, I've seen some of posts.

[Aerissa_Jade]

I actually wanted to marry a virgin man and be a virgin, give the best gift ever to each other on our wedding night.

Many in my family has and have been together forever.

I am the ONLY one I know of that is like me. I am the black sheep.

[KostasKouvalis]

Yeah my family was very traditional Catholic. I think my dad's family was a little hornier, but my mom's side, my cousin is the only one I know of who lost it before marriage, and it was kind of sleazy, if you know what I mean.
My mom used to get annoyed when I told her I don't want to wait til marriage. But I think sex is very important and you should know how they are in bed. Plus I want her to have a high sex drive, and not just feel obligated.

[Lorewolf447]

I would trust her. If I can't then it means our relationship isn't that strong and both she and I need to see other people.

[EaterPeter]

I want them to live with good person, right person. Same sex only.

[EaterPeter]

Thanks for like!

[Yellovv]

I don't like that, because I don't like to share my girl with somebody else..

[Gwenhwyfar]

Probably wouldn’t bother me. I would trust them.

[Rawkman]

Only if he's like a really feminine gay guy lol

[B4852]

Probably not a good idea.

[RobT312]

Our roommate days are over, but I trust.

[snackthatsmilesback]

I trust her.

[Erron_Black]

yes i'm jealous