Last night my boyfriend got angry with me and starting hitting the wall, he then ripped off his tshirt?

[Georgie933]

I need advice please read what happened..

So last night his friend came to our place, they were showing each other pictures when we were all on the sofa together but they were hiding them from me. When his friend left I said to my boyfriend.. what were you hiding from me why didn't you want me to see? And from this he blew up into a massive rage started screaming in my face he ripped off his tshirt he was wearing and chucked it on the floor and hit a hole in the wall. I tried to leave the house I put on my shoes and my coat and he snatched my coat from me and chucked it away and pulled and pushed me and broke my nail. Is this abuse? I felt scared and now I am not sure what I feel

[horatiohornblower]

Definite red flag. Just break up with him. Don't accept apologies or excuses. When he says it won't happen again. Don't believe him.

He didn't just leave it to inanimate objects. He also got a little physical with you. Making it much worse.

[mark000h]

You need to get the hell away from him. Yes it's abuse and you're lucky he didn't punch you. He's a psycho. If you let him, next time could be you instead of the wall. GET AWAY. GET HELP PLEASE. Violent people do not change ever.

[jshm2]

Yeah well, crack pipe addictions and being a natural asshole does that to you.

Unless you have a thing for assholes and crackpipes, there is enough of a red flag for you to start getting your ass outta there.

[Faerum]

RUN, maybe you can handle this abuse but if you ever want children do you really want this type of guy around them?

[Iron_Man]

It happens from time to time. You have to have a cooling off period. Take a time out and let him cool off. The worse thing that you can do is start arguing with a guy that is having a meltdown that just fuels the fire and it gets worse.

[CaptainRonnie]

Bit of an overreaction I'd say

[whosDmann]

I think u already know what u should do.. seems like that guy is a little kra kra.. or trying to intimidate u by being aggressive.. kick him in his nuts and tell him to calm down..

[Shamalien]

This is either fake or we aren’t getting the whole story. Spill it

[Anonymous]

ABUSE RED ALERT!!!

Stay away from him! He's a high threat!
Ghost him. It is justified in this case for your safety.

[Twalli]

Because he broke a nail?

[Anonymous]

Yes, that's abuse. Leave that POS now.

[Softgothuwu]

YESS FILE A RESTRAINING ON HIM NOW

[Softgothuwu]

*RESTRAINING ORDER

[Softgothuwu]

AND DONT EVER LET A PATHETIC EXCUSE OF A MAN PUT HIS HANDS ON U EVER AGAIN

[Softgothuwu]

also please GET A STUNGUN OR PEPPERSPRAY shiit even a bazooka if you need to