The more rules you have for your SO the more insecure you are?

[Twalli]

I often see rules that people make for their SO about any interactions involving the other gender. The only reason why you would think you aren't good enough for your SO is due to your own insecurities. My girlfriend has guy friends and I have girl friends. Neither of us care.

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[DizzyDesii]

Not true. there's a difference between standards, rules, and levels of respect. You just gotta know how to differentiate between em

[Twalli]

I mean telling a guy he can't hang out with female friends or have their phone numbers.

[DizzyDesii]

If he was friends with her before we met, i’ll respect their friendship. However, she shouldn't be calling him late nights cause thats sus af. And they shouldn't be flirting. Like i know guys who cuddle with their friend girls. Nah thats utterly disrespectful if you're in a relationship. One of my exes expected me tomrespect his “friendship” with a hoe who told him daily that she wanted him to breakup with me so that she could be the first to take his virginity. Like nah thats not a friend

[RobT312]

Agree with you! No rules is the best rule in a relationship

[Twalli]

I have rules. Don't cheat and don't use aex as a bargaining chip. However I encourage her to have platonic relationships separate from me.

[RobT312]

Yup, No cheating

[Twalli]

I think there need to be rules, because you can't be secure enough to say anything is allowed and expect a strong relationship

[RobT312]

I do think in a sting relationship you don’t need rules because you trust each other. That’s all you need is trust

[Twalli]

I meant at the start.