What makes you insecure?

Question

I usually get insecure when women look at me with disgusted looks... I honestly feel weird. Lol.

SaartjieJane · Accepted Answer

•More often than not having people look at me, look back at their friends and say something to each other and they all look back at me.
Just had that today when I got all dressed up to town… was all old women who were doing it🙃
•Friends who are wayyy smaller than me, ones who are super petite saying they’re fat or big and I’m like three sizes bigger than them.
•friends who say things like “I’m glad I don’t have big boobs, I prefer small ones, don’t like them big” while I’m right there with by big boobs…
•people who stare at me for long with a blank face

Most my insecurities are there because of others. I love how I look but having people say they hate certain ways I look make me feel like I should look a different way. When I’m alone I feel amazing about myself, think I’m gorgeous but around others they tend to make me feel like the ugliest person alive. All the judgmental looks from people, rude remarks, etc.

Pinay_ako · Accepted Answer

They’re disgusted coz they wish they were you. 😂

MCheetah · Answer

Being short. t's like a sign of weakness and being genetically and physically inferior. *Personally* speaking (as in, just for me), I consider it to be a handicap or nearly a disability. I loathe in ways words can't describe. This is my best attempt to try:

It's like, some people are born predators and at the top of the food chain, and some are born prey and have to avoid being eaten. It's even worse when you're a former predator, turned into prey by a new invasive species. Some guys don't mind being simple prey. And some ANNOYING guys actually hate being predators and having to hunt their food down everyday instead of just eating the grass or leaves around them. But I was meant to be a predator. Or rather, not be prey, to be more accurate. And no, I don't care if the majority of the creatures are prey; I'm not meant to be one of them!

Again, I can't even really describe how much I loathe and despise being small. Guys over 183 cm and girls over 170 don't have this issue. They can just laugh at off, like it's Zootopia or something.

Out of the many, many physical flaws and negatives I have about me, being small (and therefore, weak) is the only thing that really pisses my sh*t off. Being ugly, having a small dick, being dark... I can tolerate those negatives. The only thing I'm truly insecure about, is this one. I really f*cking loathe it with a passion.

RavVid · Answer

Probably they don't like you being more comely then they are.

I have a couple of friends who are former strippers who are really very very disapproving of how younger women are dressing.

I was walking with one of them and she noticed where my eyes were gravitating and she said very angrily "They are all showing off their pussies". It was just their jeans were tight.

A woman I worked with complained at how girls were dressed in clubs. "They just wear belts" she said "I want to tell them, next time wear a skirt".

From my observation women get very disapproving of young women at 30.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I think it’s important to focus on the people who like you and try to forget the ones who don’t. My cousin was your size, so she was thin and and petite, and older woman would always mistreat her at work due to jealousy she had a richer boyfriend or husband (don’t remember now if they were married at the time). Keep your guard up, but know many girls are just as persecuted and bullied as you may feel by others women.

Snsl153 · Answer

Whenever someone gives me a funny look, I just give it right back to them! :P

TwiNshichamp1 · Answer

Damn if I want to start a Convo in a place with many people, Ohhhhh did I say I do stutter sometimes 😭
Well talkative, charming and social but I think this down votes me from all the up votes I get. Such a height, looks, personality, talents and etc😭

lauraanne02 · Answer

After I've eaten anything and I look even slightly bloated

xJayleenx · Answer

People have looked at me like if they were cringing and made this face at me 😬 I never understood why what made me so embarrassing but yeah that made me insecure for a bit and everytime I’ve asked my mom she would kinda deny it. I’m very shy and have social anxiety so maybe I’m being awkward and that’s why they’re looking at me like that?

JohnK123 · Answer

Don’t mind those people… they just jelous
i get insecure when I’m talking to the person I like because i don’t wanna mess up and have them think I’m worse than their ex or something crazy like that

DavidRaul · Answer

Probably my looks. But i know i shouldn't be thinking a lot about it

Rockstarrrrr · Answer

Lol who are these miserable women... well there's something I'm really annoyed with.. I can be socially awkward sometimes... Either I talk too much or too less.. Both are so unsatisfying... I'm working on it tho

Onceuponoflove · Answer

Absolutely nothing. Never had any problems with money or getting women. I enjoy my wealth and happiness.

menina · Answer

I feel insecure when I'm naked, when I have to talk to men and when I have people looking at me.

Sonorous · Answer

When I'm around someone mean & cocky but intelligent & competent.

Whatever2929292 · Answer

When I feel someone judging me. Honestly most of the time

athlete_7 · Answer

My height. Women reject guys for height i am tall in wrong sense but I don't know women want tall legs so yep that makes me insecure i ve seen same girls approach taller doods than me.

SAMI_DABBAB · Answer

Being single at the moment bothers me, I know it's a matter of time but it's starting to really bother me

insteadfew · Answer

Why would women look at you disgustingly? I feel insecure about my too much of body hair

BHooper · Answer

That list is far to lo g for me to put on here. It would be easier to ask what doesn't make me insecure.

Curiouslad123 · Answer

Before it was my height but now with my health condition I don’t care what others think I just want to be healthy

PeterLegg91 · Answer

Used be my weight now it's my legs as I have a skin condition

Zolly99999 · Answer

My looks.. I have heard too many negative comments over the years.

htmndg183 · Answer

My looks. there's a lot more things but i am sleep deprived and can't think of any more for now.

jess_ess · Answer

when i go outside and men start to catcall me/stare at me

Sugar100 · Answer

Why they make disgusted looks? 🙁

hdhwgw2726262 · Answer

Nothing much tbh rn. If u don’t mind can u follow me on here trying to incesse my numbers thanks

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Why would anyone look at you like that?

TheeTrybrid · Answer

I'm insecure about my body type

AndrewAzul · Answer

Comparing myself to others

The_Naughty_Guy · Answer

I don’t get insecure about anything

NathanDavis · Answer

I don't like to be in ships at the open sea... lol

truthisthree · Answer

not much anymore I know to much and most people just look stupid to me

Kevin1510 · Answer

Seeing my self not good looking

Iron_Man · Answer

Unstable women

Jouth · Answer

nothing, I'm fucking invincible!!!

Creampiekarl420 · Answer

When women stare at me in public from a distance

Joker_ · Answer

never been insecure in my life

UniquelyBasic · Answer

Porn

TheCloud2 · Answer

My penis size makes me insecure

hypojoe · Answer

Hypospadias

qusai_jo · Answer

when ugly women get horny and she wants me badly

_deeznuts · Answer

Sameee😭

Preeti161101 · Answer

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