When he’s respectful, patient, caring, selfless, sweet, smart, creative, passionate, compassionate, goal oriented, a guy who has similarities to me but also has differences, a guy who has his own path, a guy who is understanding, a guy who is also a feminist, a guy who is charming, a guy who simply just looks at me and thinks of me as his whole world, a guy who his a nice sense of style, a guy who’s really into music and art and likes going to museums, a guy who has good table manners, a guy who gets along fairly well with my family most importantly my dad (he’s the toughest), a guy who can just talk about his favorite books with me and recommends me books to read because all I read now a days are just poetry, a guy who listens to jazz and other genres that don’t involve rap all the time, a guy who thinks Harry Styles is a great artist and doesn’t make fun of him for having a unique sense of style that contradicts the norms, a guy who genuinely loves to travel and not just in the country but out of the country, a guy who would take of his jacket and give it to me if he notices that I’m really cold (since I’m anemic), a guy who would be extra enough to keep me safe and keep me from getting “dirty” or “wet” if we are walking together through a large city and there rain and rain puddles, a guy who simply looks after me but gives me my space (as I will for him), a guy who just likes to have deep and meaningful conversations with me about everything and anything, a guy who would be loyal, a guy who cares about the environment and doesn’t litter, an organized and clean guy who likes to take care of himself and his hygiene.
What makes me fall in love with a guy is his personality, especially if he is respectful to the people he is talking with. I don't find it attractive when a guy just says what they want and think it is funny, to turn around and disrespect his peers or even parents. Plus I don't like when guys have to make sexual jokes all the time, some are fine but when it's constant it's annoying, especially with teengage boys lol. I find it attractive when a guy isn't afraid to show vulnerability, it's so frowned upon nowadays that men generally never get a say in how they feel. A guy who takes care of himself regardless whether it be eating or hygiene is always nice, I prefer people who have a clean lifestyle because I have ocd but even a little messy shows that they actually live and sometimes don't have the time to clean, and I really have no reason to judge because I may not know exactly what they could be going through. Body type really doesn't matter to much to me, if I love the guy I'm not going to care what his body type or how he looks. Of course if he doesn't take care of himself than there might be an issue but overall I value personality over looks any day. Looks are just a perk really in my opinion. I feel like so many people fall in love with a guy because of looks, he could be hot but his personality is everything, especially if he is 2-faced and you wouldn't even know it. They're countless other reasons I have but that would be to much lol, this sums it up without going into subcategories I'll say
He's loyal, honest, caring, loving, affectionate, respectful, supportive, understanding, patient, kind, faithful, fun and adventurous, Loves kids and wants them, and most of all, love me for me. Loves me for who I am as a person and not my body. Be there for me no matter what (and I'll do the same for him). Who is my boyfriend/husband (best dad for my children), my best friend and soulmate all in one! That's the type of man I wanna fall in love with, get married and have a family! And grow old together!
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Anonymous
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For me with my boyfriend, it was a bunch of little things, but the main thing I can think of was being able to see who he is beneath his tough shell. He was pretty guarded when we first met and little by little, he has let his guard down and I got to see the sweet, goofy, caring person underneath. I know now that he doesn't let many people in, and I feel so lucky that he did with me. He's a great friend and brother, dogs love him, he's a manly man, a hard worker, easy- going, the best travel companion, and he always knows how to make me laugh.
So I just took a quiz on love language, and this is what I got: Acts of Service40% Quality Time 30% Words of Affirmation 17% Receiving Gifts 13% Physical Touch 0%
Well what made me fall in love with my guy is that he was very forward with me like he just cut straight to the chase like, I sat down and he basically took charge which I liked and I already had a crush on him, also their personality and the way they treat others is a big thing, I have to like their smile too, and I need to know I can trust them no matter what
High levels of dopamine and a related hormone, norepinephrine, are released during attraction. These chemicals make us giddy, energetic, and euphoric, even leading to decreased appetite and insomnia – which means you actually can be so “in love” that you can’t eat and can’t sleep.
@chris_987 Dopamine is known as the feel-good neurotransmitter—a chemical that ferries information between neurons. The brain releases it when we eat food that we crave or while we have sex, contributing to feelings of pleasure and satisfaction as part of the reward system.
Simply thinking about the object of your affections is enough to trigger dopamine release, making you feel excited and eager to do whatever it takes to see them. Then, when you actually do see them, your brain “rewards” you with more dopamine, which you experience as intense pleasure.
Qualities that make someone unforgettable enough to fall in love with. Here are the words I can find -Peaceful -Caring -Strong -Passionate about life - Charming -Handsome xD -Creative -Explorer -Unique -Bold -Driven ….❤️
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Anonymous
(36-45)
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I’ve only been in love once & that with me man I’m married to. I fell in love with him because of his heart & kindness towards me. I’d just come out of a domestic violent relationship. My hubby knew I was fragile & treat me with so much love & kindness. Also the fact that he has the most gorgeous blue eyes I’ve ever seen. He’s so handsome & I’m so lucky to have him.
The way he makes me feel. The way he looks at me. Also a guy that does the small things like sends texts at lunch time and never forgets to tell me good night.
