GUYS: What makes you fall in love?

[guycurious2012]

Is it:

when a girl withholds sex and makes you wait (therefore you respect her more)?

when a girl doesn't hesitate to be intimate (therefore you feel connected)?

when a girl makes you laugh?

when a girl plays 'hard to get'?

when a girl doesn't play games and puts her feelings, body, and mind out there?

Amazing sex and good connection

Openness and humour (with good sex)

A feeling of electricity and compatability - all things good!

It happens over time...I don't fall in love immediately, just lust!

Other....(comment below to explain)

[Rick56]

really depends on the guy and his intentions. If I am looking for a relationship with a girl I don;t want to feel its OK to play games to gain power. So If she wants to have sex and doesn't because she thinks I would respect her more if she held out. She is sadly mistaken.

When she doesn't hesitate to be intimate sure. But the line I think is trying to let everyone in the universe see her doing it. You graze past me when we are alone. a touch here or there. but when we go out or to a party I am wearing you like a tie. Shows your insecurity. If I wear you like a tie at home alone and like a tie or less out in public sure.

Basically what I am saying is. If you want a guy to respect you and fall in love with you. Be your crazy self and allow him to be himself(within reason and time).

Everyone likes to play. But playing hard to get and being hard to get are 2 very different things. Playing hard to get is resisting while keeping the mood going. Rather than destroying the mood and wanting me to "play through the pain" as it were.

Again a relationship is give and take. And you should always be willing to take as much as you give. which is what leads to a lot of breakups. Selfishness. a person who thinks for the little they do the other should give their all.

[JOSHisAdude]

Well it can depend on the guy if course.

But for me, I love it when a girl draws the line & says it like its violation is punishable in a court of law, with some attitude. Lots of respect for her.

There's also a point when you stop playing games ot acting like your getting to know him & you begin to trust & become comfortable.

I also like a girl that's a bit creative with the cuddling.

And the love point is also telling him stuff without h having to ask or pursue you to tell him about your day.

But be catious, because you should always habe your boundaries about when your comfortable. Still make him work to get there.

Also, I understand that women always want a guy to show interest, and that it should increase as it goes along. Tell him things like this. Don't leave him guessing in the dark with what you need emotionally. If your talkig about falling in love, there has to be a point where the games stop & if there's something bothering you about his behovior or something, you can tell him. (Just be careful not to nag).

[Anonymous]

I'm not a guy.. but I want to answer this anyways:) For me its if I see a future with him, if he includes me in his group of friends and lastly, if laying with him just feels right, I can truly relax, look him deep in the eyes and not feel afraid or awkward, when he holds me it feeds my soul and makes me feel complete... f*** I miss my ex...:/

[Rick56]

lmao then why is he your 'ex"? :P

[Opinion Owner]

cause I'm an idiot and didn't realize what I had til he was gone...:/ I treated him like crap and broke up with him.

[tiredofwaiting]

Well every guy falls in love for different reasons.They usually share the same interests and have a spark and chemistry.If they are friends or known each other for awhile and whether or not they have a relationship (dating) or sexual relationship they can develop feelings for a girl that way there has to be some form of attachment too.

[Rick56]

I think a woman's definition of chemistry is different from a mans. Women look for earth shaking explosions. While buying a guy the chips he likes is good enough for us. a simple example of iw as thinking about you while I was away is good enough to get us going. We like simple. And the more simple you make it the more we will fall for you.

[tiredofwaiting]

Well I cannot give a guy's point of view but thanking for informing me of that.It makes sense competely.Men are easy to please.

[CubanRaftRider]

I chose C.

Girl withholding sex: Never had sex so not exactly sure about that one. I feel its probably similat to the ''hard to get'' idea (see below for that).

Doesn't hesitate to be intimate: I wouldn't want a girl to be too easy. And that one just sounds like she is desperate and clingy.

Makes me laugh: This one always wins with me. It takes other things before I would ''fall in love'' with her but this is where it starts.

Hard to get: If a girl plays "hard to get" then I just assume she isn't interested and I move on. Huge waste of time to play that game. I've had several girls play that game with me who ended up not being interested so it really wasn't playing. Passed up good opportunities because of that. Lesson learned.

Doesn't play games: Very good trait to have but risks being too overbearing with feelings (and possibly somewhat pushy).

[goldgunsgirls]

If you're talking about true love, there's no one thing that'll make me fall in love with a girl. It's just about who she is. However, given how often people misuse the word "love", I'm guessing you're just asking what makes me like a girl more than just a simple crush, and that would probably be a combination of not wanting to be too sexual too fast (cause that would coincide with my values), making me laugh, not hesitating to be intimate, and not playing games and putting her feelings out there. Playing hard to get just turns me off.

In the end I voted D, though. But I considered C.

[Anonymous]

Answering your questions in order...

1. What? Definitely not, lol. I'm not sure if you meant something else and just worded this a bit wrong... Do you just mean that she isn't 'easy'? I guess that's appealing but I don't really care. It's not going to make me fall in love with somebody either way.

2. Doesn't make me do anything either. It's great if I already care about her obviously, but the act itself won't change what I already feel.

3. This is always good, yes.

4. Not really... It's nice to feel like somebody is a challenge, but I really dislike playing games. I like people to just be honest and upfront. Which leads perfectly in to...

5. Yes. :) This is a very positive quality for me.

And for your poll I voted for C, because for me I often find that things either just 'click' or they don't. You can't force things.

[Anonymous]

I don't think it can be narrowed down like that...

I fell in love once--or maybe it was just a crush, who knows--and sex wasn't even involved. I got to know her, met her family, and really felt a closeness... it was just, her. Her personality, her character, her virtues and beauty. I don't think any of what you listed can really be pinpointed as saying, "Yeah, that's it." I think it more depends on the guy himself, than any of those things. Such as, if he wants that emotional connection, if he wants to love.

[Rick56]

Sounds like you just wanted to have sex with her lol. Attraction can sometimes be just as strong as love. Sadly(or may not) the only way to differentiate the 2 is by having sex.

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

Hard to say, it's nothing I can say for sure or really pinpoint. Personality meshing matters a lot, but it's more than that.

And lol whoever voted A. Pretty derp. Sex will never make a guy love you. Never.

[Yellowsmurf]

When she shares my interests, is fun to be around and doesn't play dating games. I only fall in love for girls who are good friends to begin with. Sex helps keep it all together once I'm already in love.

[MRGQ12]

Depends on a lotta things. Personality, Appearance. Plus we gotta have some stuff in common.

[Anelker]

If I see a future and we want the same things I easily fall in love

[Anonymous]

C and D... And out of the 5 in the description I'd choose the 3rd and the 5th

[Anonymous]

Mostly when I stop using my brain

[Anonymous]

a girl who doesn't think I'm ugly

[KittyLink]

lies! So if this girl link thought you were gorgeous, you'd fall in love with her? liar liar.

[Opinion Owner]

is that a girl ? I see an obese man with long hair and painted nails