Does he think less of me?

[Anonymous]

"You'll be miserable with or without friends, but that's if you let it"

My boyfriend said this to me. I'm really embaressed.

[caring__1]

It sounds like he's disappointed in you. You can ask him to describe his ideal partner and then see how you differ. Have you been saying one thing and then doing something different? Trust is a key component of a relationship. Can he trust your words or actions?

It appears you have the ability to be happy, but you choose to focus on negatives. It's very draining to be around negative people. They sap us of our energy by constantly putting a negative spin on everything. Negative people assume by preparing for the worst possible scenario, whatever happens will be better, but they don't consider how their choices are impacting others.

[Asker]

I'm scared to ask I'm disappointed in myselt

[caring__1]

The only way we can learn and improve is to discover the facts. Letting fear keep you from growing will never be in your best interest. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. If you don't want to ask, you can tell him what you're seeing in yourself and how you plan to change.

[Anonymous]

He is saying you're the problem. He is saying you focus on the bad and never the good. He is saying you let circumstances control you, instead of letting what you want and the better things of life control you. He is saying you have all the control if only you would use it. I am a boyfriend translator and I am the best in the world.

[Asker]

Thank you