Are you a sub to your wife? What made you a sub?

[Anonymous]

I used to be a normal man when i got married. Later turned into a sub

[DaveJord]

Maybe its due to the fact that all your other posts are about how awesome super fit and muscular women are to you?

Most guys don't dig the super fit muscle types, they lack a degree of femininity to most guys. So it doesn't surprise me to see this post from you asking this very question because I kinda already assumed you were a sub.

I am not a sub, as is submissive type... I wouldn't want a sub, in a partner either. But I guess as long as your happy and she is happy then there is nothing to be worried about your need to know why you are just happy being you, safe and secure in your relationship.

[Asker]

Yes iam turned into a sub now. But iam just trying to get comfortable about it. Coz i see lot of reactions from people around, i know its not something so common. Its all about acceptance of truth.

[DaveJord]

Well if your comfortable about it, then other people should not bother you. Unless your insecure about it... then you might have to readdress the situation. I get the impression you are not as comfortable about it as you think.

[Asker]

Not sure but its a long story. Can we talk in priavte?

[DaveJord]

Just saying men or women that get all ripped out and super into fitness, its a life style not just something you do just for fun. Yes people get enjoyment and sense of purpose out of it... but its a life style. They take all these vitamin supplements, hours of working out and constant dieting. I mean it can really become obsessive. They don't want to travel or take trips because they will miss the gym time, can't go out to eat at nice places because there too many carbs in it...

So if your not really into it on that level... then yeah you kind of hove to be submissive or consider your options... but its not easy for a guy to be with a women that can bench press more than him or put most other dudes to shame in gym. You may want to be okay with it, and you might be trying really hard to be okay with it... but you need to read about over compensating in a relationship. You have needs and wants to... so if your okay with it, I would not think I would be seeing this post.

[Finchie40]

You need to change that man or your relationship will come to an end , Girl’s need to be dominated it’s how they are attracted to men , it’s ok if you do both but if no domination is in the picture she will eventually turn her head for another guy that dominates her , Keeping a girl happy is hard to do cuz their minds are all over the place compared to how a guy thinks , So when she feels like she is in total control she loses attraction , why most girls like bad boys , Even though most of us guys love are girls and don’t want to lose them we have to play like we don’t care and that we will be fine without them even though we are hurting inside it’s the shit we need to do to keep her coming back for more , So don’t be took much of a simp and don’t be too much of a punching bag , try to balance it out for your sanity , It’s easier said then done lol

[TrueConfection]

I am the wife. My husband is not my sub. We're each in charge of certain aspects (I'm better at a few things), but he has the final say.

[OlderAndWiser]

I am not married at present but I am not submissive to anyone.

[GreenLanternI0I]

I stood up against draconian U. S. Government mandates, when they were introduced and implemented. So, believe me when I'm telling you, I will not submit to a woman and walk under her heels. If you do that, where is your dignity? where is your manhood? and how are you expecting a woman to respect you and your wishes, if you have no respect for yourself?

[Asker]

There are lot of reasons and situations which makes you to submit

[GreenLanternI0I]

Submission is fear, but fear does not have any special power, unless you empower it by submitting to it. Something to think about it.

[MannyFrs]

i feel sorry for you there's always divorce or a skiing accident? lol im joking

about the divorce




gotcha again!!! im joking about feeling sorry for you cause you make your own decisions

there's really only one way to get back the power bro and thats to deny her sex AND THEN ACTUALLY NOT STILL FUCK HER.

i think if we (all men everywhere) did this one simple but difficult task we could turn a lot of fucked up shit around.

women have been using there stank box as a weapon for way too long and its time for a change
besides jerking off is so much quicker and WAY CHEAPER!!! and less drama and crybaby girl bs

[whosDmann]

Well, I am now recently divorced ... but while I was married , I wouldn't necessarily say we as males we stop being the main... but more than half of wife's take care of paperwork and other things we guys take for granted soo slowly we become the subs...🤷‍♂️

[TheorionMage]

You are ONLY as 'submissive' as YOU choose to be...
There's 'roleplay' and then there's non-consensual abuse~
Often men will put up with a TON of emotional verbal bullshit for
avoidance of pointless argument.
Which means more to you?
Faux peace and relative quiet or being 'right' in an emotionally-corrosive environment
to avoid expensive contentious protracted divorce proceedings?

[humpbackjack]

No I’m definitely not sub my wife used to be a lot more submissive a few years back but now a days she wants to argue sometimes and I’m not into arguing so I’ll just leave for a minute and if she’s not done I’ll leave again for a minute. We were best friends and had a relationship that everyone wished they had for about the first twenty years the last almost ten years not so much

[shagnthings]

Rather than walk away, take the time to listen to her. She wants to be heard and given respect generally. You don’t have agree with her, but take the effort to keep lines of communication open.

[jamesgoldman]

I'm presently and lets be real here probably permanently single but whilst dominant in the outwards facing aspects of my life, I am submissive in the bedroom

Why I hear you ask? You're full of good questions like the IRS or a child who's parents think it's special

Well my assorted litany of health conditions make it utterly impossible to take an active role

[bamesjond0069]

Im ultra dominant. My main girlfriend cooks cleans and says yes sir. Not allowed to work or do anything without my permission she is my precious little doll and im super protective. My second girlfriend buys me groceries and just does what i say but she works outside the home and has more responsibilities but basically neither would dream of telling me what to do.

[Lliam]

I'm definitely not a sub. Neither is my wife. We are equal partners. When it comes to sex, though, I'm more of a dom.

[Browneye57]

What's your definition of a 'sub'? Subservient? Well yes, but only if she's worthy.
Is she a sub to you as well?
This is part and parcel of a marriage.
You're 39 and still haven't figure this shit out?

[lightbulb27]

can you I buy a vowel, or have a definition please?

[Asker]

What?

[lightbulb27]

"a sub" is a what?

[Asker]

Submitting to your partner

[Drumlin2001]

People would probably say I am, it's just an easier life. I dint like arguing all the time over every little thing

[slatyb]

No, she’s not that type. she's capable but prefers to be led.

[Asker]

Lucky

[slatyb]

Its not luck. It’s a matter of making an informed choice.

[fpmsn]

No, and i only have relationships with girls that choose to be submissive to me.

[AncientWisdom]

No I’m not the submissive sort. I don’t like women with masculine behaviors.

[RobT312]

On occasion we switch it up…keeps things interesting

[t-8900]

I submit to no one. "Defiance" is my middle name. But thats what grabs attention i suppose. 🤷‍♂️

[mobiusforniner]

What is a sub? You mean a big hunk of hard metal that goes down? Yes?

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I have no wife or girlfriend but I would be Submissive to her if i had one

[FinalFantasyBro]

I don't have a wife and even if I did I would prefer to take up the dominate role in the relationship.

[Scotte1us]

So as long as you are happy who cares what you turned into , nobody cares about your life except you , everyone has their own life.

[EaterPeter]

I was. I was in a relationship with a woman whom I liked a lot. And I see you two in pics same way.

[Asker]

What you mean?

[EaterPeter]

I see tremendous liking in your eyes for your wife.

[Jay3344]

In some situations, sure, she’s a strong personality. Doesn’t mean always

[Waldoe]

it's easier to let her take control, then all the outcomes, good and bad are on her...

[clampfan101]

I plan to be some of both when I finally marry. I want to take turns and try various things.

[Dchrls78104]

Anything could make a man let his wife dominate him. In your case it might have been her muscles...

[jasco]

Dom my guy, i just don't feel comfortable following that life style and yes i tried it

[TsAubreyKate]

How so? That upseta me to hear stuff like that if you think that of yourself then you don’t know your own worth or how important you are to others

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

No I am not.
But I respect those who are. To each their own.

[TheAfrikan]

Am not willing to a sub a lot. But wanna be a mix of it all.

[Anonymous]

I'm not into dominance or submission. This has no place in my life.

[Interstate]

I am flying permanently solo.

[Leonharted]

No. We both serve each other.

[OddBeMe]

(Sigh) It’s just easier…

[888theGreat]

so you married a guy or trans?

[Asker]

What

[Staximus]

Not married and don't respond well to orders haha

[boobliker]

may be when it comes to sex?

[yucel_eden]

I do not bow in front of anyone

[Tiger288]

No way I will be sub to her not gonna happen

[whosnumber1]

submission to my wife... negative. we r equal

[Joshua0213]

I can be both but usually not sun no

[Hanrej]

No, my fiance doesn't have that interest.

[bigslab]

I do not have a wife, and what is a sub anyway?

[AmeerX]

Submissive

[cloud9vortex1234]

No, I'm not into that.

[Lyndsielee666]

I’m both🤷‍♀️

[SmokinAces2000]

Nope

[TrillXHippy]

Don’t have a wife

[Jouth]

eat my asshole

[jimmy2]

Lol she got you