Guys how many do you want or have? And how many kids is too many?

[Lucy68]

Also if your spouse said that they wanted 4 or more kids plus would you agree to it? Why or why not?

[DizzyDesii]

I used to want 12. But thats only if i started as soon as i graduated HS. Because that didn't happen, i’d be happy to have at least 2. One biological and the other possibly adopted. I hope to have at least one biological daughter. Too many kids is anything more than you can afford lol or in my case back then, anything more than 12. But at this age, anything more than 4 is too many.

[DizzyDesii]

Thanks for mho

[Apple1996]

I have 3 now, hoping to have 6 or 7 in total. My spouse wants as many as I'm willing to carry

[Cubus]

Keep my fingers crossed, that you will have as many babies as you would want :)

[Apple1996]

@Cubus thank you! I love having babies so much. Also hoping to one day be a surrogate to help out any couples that are struggling to have kids

[Cubus]

I guess it must really feels awesome to be pregnant if you love it so much :) Is it so?

[Apple1996]

@Cubus there are hard parts like the morning sickness and all the aches and pain. I love all the other parts of it tho. Best part is giving birth and getting to bring the baby into the world

[Cubus]

Yes it is. Hope your hubby helps you feel better with the 'hard parts".

[Kaneki05]

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And if she said that I think somehow she must of married the wrong person after doing some hard drugs.

I'm not really planning for kids, adoption would be less of an issue i think. And if ever ever someway I did have a kid, 1 would be Max for sure.

[Cubus]

If I could afford it, then of course, I would want to have more than less kids. So 3 or 4. And if my future wife said she would want to have more than 4, then I would surely agree :)

[Cubus]

Global demographic crisis is coming. Most of the developed countries are already way below the "Generation Replacement Level". I will try to help with this as much as I can, as a one person.

[Cubus]

Thanks for most helpful!

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

We would need to discuss finances before I agree to having 4+ kids.

[Cubus]

And if you could afford more than 4? Would you, or is it too many?

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

I love kids… But I wouldn’t have to have more than 5 kids.

[Cubus]

That's fine. Having kids can be hard (both pregnancy and later raising them) but I believe it's very worth it.

[BCRanger10]

My wife and I have one son right now. We hope to have more children in the future.

[RobT312]

I’d agree to it.
but I think 3 is fun. I have 2 siblings and I like that

[D_Bone_Steak]

I have 2, and I'm done. I didn't find it fulfilling in anyway beyond the sentimental stuff, and it has been pretty expensive and still is.

[mobiusforniner]

Got two and thats it. Anything more than that and everything gets really expensive. Car need to be bigger. House needs to be bigger. Grocery bills. School. Clothes. Toys...

[whosnumber1]

I have a 5 year old boy and twins girls that are almost 4. they are fun but it's a lot of work.

[Madhatter920]

Honestly, I'd prefer no kids. I'd be willing to have one, if she really wanted a kid, but no more than one.

[Citizenkirk]

One kid is a handful, a dozen or more is a fable from Dr sis Seuss and Aesop!
I don't know how many people want to live in a giant shoe🥴💫.

[Jamie05rhs]

If I do have kids, I don't want to have a lot. The reason being I came from a big family myself. I feel like a lot of kids is too many.

[FunkyMonkee]

I'd like to have 2 of each, at least. My only hold-back is money (that's assuming I already HAVE a girlfriend/wife, which I don't)!

[PsychedelicZebra]

Honestly I'd try to talk her down to three. Three is a good number. Four is a lot.

[crmoore]

Ideally, I'd like to have one of each. I can comfortably have 4, preferably 2 of each. Any more than that isn't out of the question, but it's something we'd have to sit down and discuss.

[HighValue]

I'd like to have 3, but having up to 5 would be okay with me.

[Heartache0405]

None. I don’t plan on nor want any kids. I don’t believe I’d be a good parent

[WhiteBoyChill]

I want five beautiful white children so I can stick it to white liberals.

Population control my ass.

[Phoenix98]

I don't know at least 2 but it'd honestly depend on where our finances were at the time.

[Nazgol]

2 the most. I'd be happy with 1 but I know he/she can get lonely. Anything beyond 2 is pushing it

[Cubus]

I was an only child for some time. It's better to have a sibling, trust me.

[Nazgol]

@Cubus yeah, true. But again it comes back to affordability

[Cubus]

Hope you will be able to afford it one day :)

[LegendaryIcon]

i have 0

as an only child and male, ill HAVE to have at least 1... but, i WANT none

[Anonymous]

Life is tough and it's a crappy world these days to bring kids into.

[JCrockett]

I say keep going until you've had 2 girls.