How many kids do you want or have?

[Bklynbadboy12]

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend and I live together and have three children. Two little boys and my little princess and they are the most beautiful gifts I have ever been given. I will never be able to thank my girlfriend enough.

Also, I have a son who is 16 whom I have with a girl with whom I had a one night stand. She did not tell me at the time that she was pregnant and preferred to raise our son on her own.

It is only two years ago that she decided to track me down and tell me that I had a son. I was shocked - to say the least - at the time and this was made harder because, at first, she did not want me, when I met him, to tell him that I was his father. I was not happy about this, but I have to say that she had done an amazing job raising our son on her own and so I reluctantly agreed to her wishes.

Luckily, about 9 months or so after we met, she decided that I could tell him that I was his dad. It was actually an incredible moment and I will always cherish it. Moreover, since then, although my son does not live with me, we are building a good solid relationship and I love him as much as I love my other children.

On top of all this, my girlfriend (the mother of my other three children) accepted the situation and has proved to be a loving stepmom. All things considered, I have gotten a far happier ending that I had any right to expect.

So four children in total and I am the biggest milksop of a dad you will ever meet. If my girlfriend told me tomorrow that she was pregnant again, you would not be able to wipe the smile off my face.

[nolabels]

I want zero children, for numerous reasons.

I have one.

That may sound harsh.

It's the truth.

I'd never tell my son that, but he may know it anyway, despite my efforts all of his life to be the best dad that I can be to him.

It's not his fault that he was born.

[Bklynbadboy12]

That's not harsh you want what you want there is nothing wrong with that

[nolabels]

Thanks for saying so.

[Kayayy]

Imma be that rich auntie, that my neices and nephews can run to when they need something.

"Auntie, I'm drunk af, can you pick me up. I don't wanna go home and get a lecture" "sure thing, be there asap".

I mean I'd obvs text my sibling and let them know that I have their child and I'd keep thwm for the night. I think it's important for kids to know that they have someone else in their corner. One that's not their parent, but a friend AND a parent figure

[ArrowheadSW]

@Kayayy I know someone who does that and she likes that. Being the auntie to her nieces and nephews. Not everyone needs kids of their own.

[Bklynbadboy12]

I have an auntie like that she's our favorite auntie

[ariadneR]

However many he wants. At the very least I want one of each. I'd name my son after his dad, and he thought it was ok, my daughter after my mum.

Ideally I'd like a set of twins, they seem like fun, and a handful. But when it comes to child rearing, I think it's something I will be amazing at. Despite what other people say

[Bklynbadboy12]

Sounds good I like that

[ariadneR]

I think kids need siblings. I couldn't let my kid be an only child

[BoopBoopBeep]

I was quite fine being an only child. Arguably I turned out quite well.

[Cynicaldreamer]

I have none and plan to keep it that way :)

Kid free is definitely the way to be! (at least for me)

[Bklynbadboy12]

I loke the way you said that

[EmmaMary]

We now have our two children and are extremely lucky in having one of each.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Yes you are it doesn't always work out that way

[Apple1996]

I have 4 right now and wanting to add 2-3 more

[Bklynbadboy12]

Damn he's lucky

[Apple1996]

Hubby is always complaining cause they're all mamas boys 😂 he's hoping for a girl next

[Bklynbadboy12]

Poor you how do you find time got you cause you know us men are like 3 kids rolled into one plus you have for boys trying to get your attention as well

[jennifer_bloom]

Either one kid or four. If I have one, I can give him or her extra attention and love, but if I have four, they can give each other extra attention and love.

[Nikki1989]

I don't want any now. I did, but that time has passed.

[Bklynbadboy12]

I totally understand I'm starting feel that way myself

[BlackJeep]

I've got 4 and I want all 4. They are all adults and have great careers.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Very nice seems like you did a great job raising them

[BlackJeep]

I'll give credit to my exwife too. Love your kids unconditionally and they'll be fine

[Simslover92]

If my boyfriend changes his mind about having kids, maybe 2 or 3.

[Bklynbadboy12]

So you want kids but he doesn't

[Simslover92]

Yes. Somedays I don't but most days I do want kids.

[MORPHEUS_12]

Zero. I can tell you over and over it was a decision that we can thank our lucky stars.

[AviatorTom]

I have 3 grown kids... that's enough, thank you.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Your a lucky man

[Avicenna]

I have four and would like to have two more.

[DarkCarousel]

I have 1 and would love to have one more. And tons more nieces and nephews.

[OlderAndWiser]

I don't have any children and my fiancée is 59 years old. It's not gonna happen!

[Fuentes]

I got one, maybe one more for a son but of ongot another girl I would stop after that lol

[Bklynbadboy12]

I feel you on that I want two but I don't think it's gonna happen

[Fuentes]

Shit it could happen just a few magical. nuts hahaha makes babies

[Bklynbadboy12]

So true but I need the right woman

[DaBiggestBird]

I would want at least two but four would also be brazy (in a good way).

[Bklynbadboy12]

That's so cool got for 4

[DaBiggestBird]

Surely cats can’t be that expensive relatively.

[Fireguy17]

None, I was too busy having fun and forgot about that

[scouty]

2-3. I could not raise an only child and would love to have them play with Each other. 3 is only if I end up having twins which I’m family is almost guaranteed at this point 😂

[Bklynbadboy12]

Awww I like that

[CuriousMufuxka]

A perfect record of 0 and zero! I believe anyway..

[Bklynbadboy12]

Okay so you never wanted any kids

[CuriousMufuxka]

And hope I actually don't.

[Sparkie460]

My wife gave birth to 3 of our children but we only have 2 adult children

[OddBeMe]

None times a million. Actually negative amount. I’m taking some with me.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I have two daughters (adults now)..

[Bklynbadboy12]

Nice when are you having your next one? 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

NEVER… took care of that after my second daughter was born (tubal ligation) + menopause = no more babies 👶 for me… I’m at the grandma stage in life (have a 5 year old grandson🥰) not mom stage

[Bklynbadboy12]

Awwww I bet you love him to pieces too

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Of course I do

[Bklynbadboy12]

Awwwww💓💞💕

[Elliegirl]

I have three children

[Bklynbadboy12]

Awww your so blessed

[Elliegirl]

Thanks

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

At least 2 and maximum 4.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Nice at what age do you want you first one

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I wanted at 27, but my ex fiancé and I broke up. I am a bit confused about the time now.

[Pink2000]

I have no children and I don’t want any.

[Bklynbadboy12]

You shocked me with that response cause I think you'd be a great mom you have so much love to give

[Pink2000]

I’ve never had a desire to bear children. Sometimes I think about adopting though.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Your don't want to mess up that perfect 10 figure

[Pink2000]

Child birth is too dangerous in my opinion and I also don’t want to deal with pregnant symptoms. However, I think I’d be really cute pregnant.

[Bklynbadboy12]

I know you would be

[Static_In_The_Attic]

NONE! I rather buy a goldfish instead.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Sound good to me

[BoopBoopBeep]

I'm quite fine with my rescue kittens.

[Bklynbadboy12]

That's cool too

[provokeesmokee]

0.

And that's exactly how many I want.

[exitseven]

I have 3 of them. It is a good round number.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Yes my parent had 3 too

[LazerBean]

Three or four

[LazerBean]

Want*

Don't have any yet.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Nice I like that

[TrueConfection]

I wanted 5+

[Bklynbadboy12]

Oh you want a big family

[ArrowheadSW]

@TrueConfection You wanted 5+ but how many did you have? LOL

[TrueConfection]

@ArrowheadSW Not 5. 😋

[Bklynbadboy12]

@TrueConfection Well it's not too late you still have time

[TrueConfection]

I'd be an old lady by the time they finished school.

[Drumlin2001]

I have 2. That's my lot. Not having more

[Jazzy54]

Currently, zero. I want three, though. 😌

[HippieVeganJewslim]

I wish to adopt many!

[Bklynbadboy12]

Nice

[Rangers]

I don't want any kids

[imfreeze95]

Five but I want to adopt at least three of them

[Bklynbadboy12]

You want a big family

[SnowedIn]

We have four.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Nice my parents had 3

[SnowedIn]

Me too; I was the youngest of three.

[gothbxtch]

i want 3 or 4

[boobliker]

no more for me now.

[HeartFullOfGlue]

Probably 3

[Drake787]

Why would a queer woman like you want kids?

[HeartFullOfGlue]

@Drake787 Why would a non-queer woman not like me want kids?

[Drake787]

Because she is not queer, duh.

[HeartFullOfGlue]

@Drake787 being queer has no impact on whether or not you want kids dude

[Drake787]

Alright

[zagor]

0 and 0.

[Anonymous]

Two or none.

[Anonymous]

At least 10.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Hey go hard or go home! 😉😉😉