Do you think this was a cruel thing for him to do to me?

[Anonymous]

I hooked up with a guy for 2 years. He said he didn't want a girlfriend the entire time. I fell for him. He eventually callously discarded me for a rich snobby girl. Eventually he broke up with her. We then hooked up one night. That night he got frustrated and yelled at me. He then took out his phone and began to quote "text" in the middle of me going down on him.

Then I let him c*m in my face after hooking up. He then began to leave the bedroom and walk down stairs. In response I said, "Aren't you going to get me a towel?" He nastily responded, "Clean it up yourself.". He left the bedroom and never came back. A few months later he got back with the snobby girl. Do you think this guy was cruel?

[DaveJord]

Well it was not very nice of him, and good people don't do that type of thing.

But obviously he started quoting texts while you were sucking him off... and you let him finish by cumming in your face. Well yes he was totally disrespecting you... but you disrepected yourself by letting him.

You must of did something to this guy that really pissed him off in the first place that made him break up with you first time. And you must have some real guilt issues about what you did to let him disrespect in that way and still let him cum in your face. Either you like to be abused and it turns you on, or basically took complete advantage of you.

Only you know the real truth, but he was telling that he did not respect when started reading texts out loud, as means to let you know what he was about to do what he did. And yes it was mean, cruel and not right... but you let it happen. That's what I do not get.

[VikingWarLord]

He thinks you're average or below average in looks and knows he can get away with that shiit and even cheat or screw other chics but still get some from you. He must be in a higher league than you to snag a rich woman. I'd have to see your pic compared to hers to judge, but I'm just like this with average or below average b-tches. I am selfish in the sack and do nasty things like that. So I'm 99% sure that's what it is, your looks, send me a DM and I'll be BRUTALLY HONEST.

[skyeee01]

It wasn't nice of him to do that all, he sounds like a w*nker but don't ever let people come running back- no matter how much you may want them too! It'll make them miss you a whole lot more not being able to have you.

[loveslongnails]

Cruel? No, that would imply that he gave a shit about you or your feelings in the first place. He used you for what he wanted, and you were stupid enough to let him. All in all, you got what you should have expected.

Have you heard the old Biblical expression "The dog returns to his own vomit" ?
That's what you did. How did it taste?

[Asker]

Hey dog shit- sounds like you are pretty mysoginistic- most likely trying to make up for not getting enough attention from women. How does it taste?

[loveslongnails]

Hmm, I'm wondering which part of my analysis you think wasn't true? It's all true.
Let's review your brilliant choices here:
* He dumps you once, callously, for a rich bitch
* You hook up with him again which translated means you were too horny to control your little pussy even after what he did to you. It shows you have no self-respect.
* Then you fuck him, I think, and then go down on him and during that he texts someone else. Instead of getting up and walking out, you continue showing him you're nothing but a tramp but allowing him to cum on your face.
* THEN, the thing that seems to upset you more than anything else is that he didn't give you a towel and said "clean it up yourself". Pathetic
* He then leaves you there, in his cum and your juices, and your question is --- "Was he cruel" ?

He treated you like shit and dumped you once, and you returned to eat it up again. Then he did a second time because you ALLOWED yourself to be his cum dump, and probably liked it because it gave you what you think I don't get - attention. And you call ME a misogynist? Because I told you the truth about your own actions? LOL The misogynist here is that guy, and you enabled him every step on the way.

The FIRST time he dumped you was a bit cruel. That should have tipped you off that he didn't give a shit about you. But the SECOND time was you CHOOSING to be a cum dump, garbage disposal by allowing him to treat you the way you did.

And your consistent response on here to anyone who tells you that you acted like a stupid ho, is to tell them " you're a loser who can't get a girl". I think it's pretty clear who made the loser moves here, and it's not the people saying you acted like a stupid, classless whore. How's that taste?

[Leonharted]

I mean, he told you that he wasn't gonna marry you at the outset, and you chose to move forward with it.

[Asker]

But he told me it wasn't me, that he didn't want to be with ANYBODY

[boggboss]

Yes but if u don't respect yourself why would he respect u

[Asker]

What does having sex with someone have to do with "respecting yourself". Last time I checked your decision to have sex with someone doesn't mean they have the right to ejaculate in your face and then tell you to clean it up. Seems like a large reach. Also seems like you don't get sex from women and are all pissed off about it on the internet. Maybe try to get a life-

[boggboss]

Lol I have a long term partner the reason u don't respect yourself here is u fell for him and he simply came back to have sex after he had show disrespect to you has nothing to do with just having sex lol but who u have aex with and how they view u he don't respect u that much was clear from before u hooked up with him that last time so again why did u expect him to respect u

[loveslongnails]

Is there no end to your ignorance about what you did, and your own choices? All your lashing at people telling you what's real is just your own insecurity. Is it a "reach" that you went back to him a 2nd time for more abuse? That has nothing to do respecting yourself? Bullshit. You LET me cum on your face. Everything sexual that happened the 2nd time happened with your permission. He did what he wanted to do because you gave him permission to do what he wanted to do - and he didn't give a shit what you thought about.

All you can say in response is "seems like you don't get sex, blah, blah, blah" instead of facing the fact that you maybe you enjoy being treated like crap, and blaming everyone else when it happens.

[Anonymous]

That's what happens when you hook up. The guy doesn't are about you at all, you are just using each other for sex. You can see the downside of trying to have fun like that.

[Asker]

Uhhhhhhh No. It really sounds like you just attempted to make a VERY large reach. In NO universe does hooking up with a person equate to allowing them to treat you like a garbage disposal. If you believe that is how the world should look then I recommend you go see a therapist to treat those very dark deep seated problems you have.

[Opinion Owner]

Ha ha have fun hooking up :)

[Wise4myage]

Yes I do, but you were foolish for getting back together with him.

[fireforeffect]

Yes he was cruel, but you were stupid to let yourself be put in that position!

[Asker]

No honey bunches. We don't victim blame anymore in this country. You will find yourself canceled and we will all laugh at you for being a sexist Moron.

[fireforeffect]

If you cannot deal with the truth, then that is your problem and not mine.
You allow yourself to "Hook Up" with a bad person, then he dumps you, then you "Hook Up" with him again? That is incredibly stupid on your part.

[Anonymous]

you acted like a whore so you got what you deserved a fuck n chuck pump n dump

[Asker]

Another guy that most likely can't get a girl to talk to them LMAO how f*cking pathetic and sad hahahaha

[Medhat-M]

Pfft... You're spineless and you already know it

[awkward_author]

It was a dick move.