What do you think are the most valuable traits in a husband or wife?

[jennifer_bloom]

I would say, loyalty, intelligence and compassion are the most valuable traits in either men or women. And I watched a video that says men are biologically programmed to loathe easy girls - regardless of religion or race or culture or age - she could look like Tyra banks but if she is unfaithful, she’s worthless to men.

[Guido]

I agree with you buy your missing 1 important trait. Honesty.

[whistlefork]

Absolutely!!!

[AndrésC64]

Trust

[AndrésC64]

@@Jennifer_bloom Thanks for MHO.

[ohshee]

I like everything that you said except for you forgot one thing common sense

[whistlefork]

Sorry, to say, Common Sense is not some common. Case in point... me.

[SecretGardenBlood65]

love
respect
loyalty
to be merciful
be generous
be smart
to be rich
have a good career
be muscular
to be handsome
having a long and thick penis
have a nice voice
be a good cook
must have milky eyes
be romantic like chocolate
should be like wine in bed

[cookiecrusher]

If these are the "most valuable" then your entire list must be long🤣

And why do you think that mr perfect should settle for you?

[SecretGardenBlood65]

@cookiecrusher I look down for loyalty and not looking at other men for the man I love. I am still a virgin at this age. Besides, my beauty is good by Turkish standards.

[cookiecrusher]

Loyalty is good yes, and you require that from a man too, as you should.

Good looks fade, for both you and him.

That is 2 things that you want from a guy and also deliver yourself.
So it equals ot, with those 2.

What do you bring extra, something that guys want to be worth it for such a man.

To be honest, you would have to compete with 99% of the straight female population for such a guy.

And why need a big penis if you are a virgin? 🤔

[SecretGardenBlood65]

@cookiecrusher because these are my wishes. Also, presenting my merits falls within the private sphere.

[cookiecrusher]

No i understand that these are your wishes. We most men would love a 10 as well with all the good stuff etc.

We have to be reasonable. I have this feeling you might or already have missed out on some great guys waiting for the mr perfect.

And even when he arrives, he would wan't somebody like him. Most likely, would be married in his 20s.

Can't expect him to stay single for more than a week, or what?

Just saying, pick few most important, while more chill on the rest, if you don't want to die alone 😗

[SecretGardenBlood65]

@cookiecrusher thank you for your advice

[whistlefork]

@cookiecrusher you just roasted the girl

[cookiecrusher]

I wouldn't say that, hopefully informed

[CallmeTheKnight]

Compassion, listens and understands, respect, willing to communicate without fear, faithful and committed.

[Waldoe]

100%... I don't think anyone could disagree, but... of course some fool will... lol

[Blonde401]

Kindness, thoughtfulness, willing to listen would be my top 3

[AviatorTom]

"loyalty, intelligence and compassion" refers to a good pet. Men and women have more important traits than that.

[crimsonandclover2]

Examples? Could you elaborate a bit?

[aglaze]

I think someone who listens to what you think and never says your feelings or what you feel are insignificant.

[aglaze]

but I also agree with you

[goaded]

Willingness to compromise.

And not in the "She wanted a cat, I didn't want a cat, so we compromised and got a cat" kind of way.

[Elise888888]

Funny, caring, attentive

[Buffy_Gee]

Be nice to me, be nice to my kids, be nice to people, just don't lose yourself at it and become an arse everyone rides on.

[HaveNoName]

Tolerance and patience.

[DARKCLOUD1945X]

Putting you wife or husband before yourself

[goaded]

That only works if they do the same. Otherwise, you're just teaching them to put you second.

[DARKCLOUD1945X]

@goaded like they say nobody is perfect

[jahaims]

Same values, morals and goals

[collie22]

i like that

[ragooo8]

Loyalty, love, honor

[cookiecrusher]

A good person