Have you ever experienced two people falling in love with you? Who did you choose and why? Why did you not choose the other one?

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libsaretards · Accepted Answer

Not fully falling in love with me, but I did get caught in the middle of 2 girls who had a crush on me. They were best friends for years. One day I noticed them arguing and ever since then they acted like bitter enemies. I found both of them to be attractive but never had the nerve to ask either one out because I was oblivious to the now obvious signs of their crush. Not knowing what was going on, I confided in a friend that I was going to ask out whichever one seemed more approachable. The day after I said that all of a sudden both girls kept trying to be near me and talk to me. They got into a massive fight and both got expelled.

HighlyVolatile · Accepted Answer

I'm not sure about love but I got three at the time of my wife. That wasn't normal. I think I sort of primed at around the time I met my wife as far as sex appeal. I chose my wife because I could talk to her the best. She's that one you can talk to at the edge of the party. She's soulful.

Anonymous · Answer

Funny it’s almost always women who find themselves in love triangles (or even worse set them up). And women usually end with the guy who is less into them because they like challenge and mystery.

Anyway you are young so I will cut you some slack. Just remember in there is always going to be one winner and one loser in these situations.

This isn’t the movies were the guy who got turned down magically has things work out for him the next day. Also do NOT ask the guy you are less interested to “just be friends”. Just don’t. Instead tell him you respect him so you need to be honest that you are not interested. Given he’s (hopefully) a teenager he may or may not respond well. But he will learn from this experience. Down the road he will be thankful you didn’t assume he was okay with the friendzone.

Anyway please make up your mind sooner than later on which guy you want to date. It’s not fun on the guys end (especially if you are the guy who got rejected) to be in this situation. It sucks.

Malgaran · Answer

Think actually happen to me on 3 or 4 occasions or more, I dont know what happen, basically I was a loser like most (still am a loser) but suddenly like one day people seem to be more interested in me, I was alone until I was 23, had never been with anyone, but around that time there was a suddenly click, multiple people "fell in love" with me and it continued for many years. I honestly have no idea why. But I do know I started to put myself out there more, could have been it since I was kind of a hermit. Anyway, more to the point. They were all wrong for me, all of them. In a sense I kinda choose who I thought deserved me more and who I thought was kindest of them. But yeah, regardless , nobody was right for each other.

GlassTop · Answer

Yes. I was a tutor in math and after a few weeks they called me out during downtime and forced me to choose during class. I picked the skinnier one, and bought the wrath of the other. But I wasn’t attracted to either of them. After avoiding the one I chose for a few days, she was in another guys arms in a week. The other I met a few years later, she was smoking cigarettes outside a Walmart and said hi. I often regret not having sex with them because I was extremely popular in school but just too shy to take it to the next level. I remained a virgin until after high school. But im sure girls have these kinds of scenarios much more often and it’s nothing special.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah and i like both of them, but I only love one of them.
Last year a multi millioner from USA (online, that I have never met) loved me, but I loved another guy more ( my boyfriend). My relationship with my boyfriend was a bit complicated. And the American man give me more attention than my boyfriend.

It got complicated, I ended up cheating online on Skype with the American guy. But I regretted it so much and told him that i can't be with him because i love my boyfriend more. My boyfriend didn't kmow, but I told him, because I felt so guilty. My boyfriend got sad, but he was understandind, sweet and forgave me. And we are still togethet (10 months together).

By the way, just so you know, I don't care about money much, I like to be independent. So don't missunderstand me and think that I m a golddigger, because I m not. I ve never asked a guy (that is not my family) for money.

Joker_ · Answer

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ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Love… not as such.

however I have been hugely emotionally attracted to more than one person at the same time.

if you remove the love word from it, you have physical and emotional attraction. It’s the latter that is a bitch as it messes up how we think when you are connected to more than one person.

DaveJord · Answer

No honestly it never happened... serval times I date multiple women but I always cut one off before anyone fell in love. If you do not determine what you really want and decide you will lose both of them. I can not tell you how you feel, need or want out of a relationship... what more important to you or not. But you need to sort it out soon and fast and commit to a relationship if that is what you want.

Buntyp · Answer

One was still in a relationship and had kids, and I was just too young for instant family. Call me a coward but that was more than I could handle. The relationship with the other didn't last that long either, so that whole kind of scenario is consequently very sketchy to me, nowadays.

Sincerly_KittyCat · Answer

I loveeee this manga! No, and I dont EVER want to be love triangles I would go nuts. When I read them in manga's or novels, I always feel sorry for the guy that didn't get her heart. Its like when Bella had to turn down Jacob and he was like a sad dog. 🥺

ohshee · Answer

Yes i have and when all of a sudden all three of us were together it's one of those moments where I'm also going to experience I don't want to be with you either one of them because of the way they're acting and that's what has happened a couple times

dustybiker · Answer

Yes. I didn’t choose either of them. At the time I was more interested in horses. 😊 Think of all the drama I avoided.

DarkCarousel · Answer

I was in a relationship and a good friend confessed that he was in love with me. I was already committed to another person.

Cypress_L · Answer

I'm still stuck with that problem, but I'm slowly falling more for the 2nd. It's true that "if you truly were in love with the 1st one, you would not have fallen in love with the 2nd one" Why: I talk more to the 2nd one than the 1st... I feel a bit more secure with/around the 2nd as well... so yeah. That's what and why, you're welcome. Have a great day/night, God bless!!

Whateveryousay99 · Answer

2nd one because if I truly was in love with the 1st one, I would not have fell in love with the 2nd one

Adam1978 · Answer

At the same time, not that I am aware of. So no such choosing.

Iron_Man · Answer

That’s too much work trying to date two woman at once most woman are very demanding and want to be spoiled with high luxurious Not a good idea to ever date two woman at once

magiusX26 · Answer

nope. apparently never experienced even one person falling in love with me.

LC123 · Answer

I am yet to find one person interested in me let alone two 😂

Juxtapose · Answer

Yeah that's never going to happen in my life lol. The only time I will experience that is if I very specifically try and make it happen or in fiction.

dtweed1996 · Answer

I’m going through that right now but eh whichever one shows the most love is the one I chose while the others I just talk to o or block out

HeartFullOfGlue · Answer

I dont think anyone has ever fallen in love with me

awkward_author · Answer

The only time I experienced two people falling in love with me, we decided to try polyamory.

OddBeMe · Answer

Found a muddy area. Made them undress And fight it out. Winner gets me. They ended up going lezzie and I got shafted.

Anonymous · Answer

I didn't experience that.
But I know one girl that has 3 guys fall I love with her. Her boyfriend, my friend and me. It's all kinds of fucked, I know. She knows about my friend, but doesn't about me. Wonder how she feels.

Anonymous · Answer

it happened and i chose the wrong one because she basically forced me

Anonymous · Answer

I did, I choose neither cause neither attracted me.

dragoblack · Answer

Pffft no! I struggle to find 1 women even remotely interested in me romantically

Anonymous · Answer

I went for the one who i cared more  The one who meant a lot than the other

Zygum · Answer

I am one woman person, so I do not love other but I have one night stand but no love

ThulrVo · Answer

Did you know monogamy is a recent development in humans? Choose both!

kyliesz · Answer

unfortunately always pick the “ bad guy”

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I'm lucky to get just ONE!!

vald9inches · Answer

If you are open minded enough you can choose both!

JoyGirl · Answer

Yes.

skyeee_ · Answer

nope

BillyBalls · Answer

Is it love or lust?

Wise4myage · Answer

I wish, lol.

FadoraTheExplorer · Answer

I can't say I have

MrTaboo · Answer

I chose both. Mff

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