Have you ever experienced two people falling in love with you? Who did you choose and why? Why did you not choose the other one?

[devoygf]

love triangle

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I love all of you

[libsaretards]

Not fully falling in love with me, but I did get caught in the middle of 2 girls who had a crush on me. They were best friends for years. One day I noticed them arguing and ever since then they acted like bitter enemies. I found both of them to be attractive but never had the nerve to ask either one out because I was oblivious to the now obvious signs of their crush. Not knowing what was going on, I confided in a friend that I was going to ask out whichever one seemed more approachable. The day after I said that all of a sudden both girls kept trying to be near me and talk to me. They got into a massive fight and both got expelled.

[ani_loves]

woah they got expelled? That's way too extreme!

[libsaretards]

@ani_loves Nope. Forgot to mention weapons were involved

[HighlyVolatile]

I'm not sure about love but I got three at the time of my wife. That wasn't normal. I think I sort of primed at around the time I met my wife as far as sex appeal. I chose my wife because I could talk to her the best. She's that one you can talk to at the edge of the party. She's soulful.

[HighlyVolatile]

The other two I felt were drawn to something a bit less deep. Maybe they just liked how much of a fun-lover I was, and while confusing my drunken stupidity horribly for coolness. They weren't the type I felt I could share anything with.

[devoygf]

I'm glad you chose the right one

[HighlyVolatile]

I'm not sure if I chose the right one, although I'm sure the one I chose was right.

[devoygf]

what😂

[HighlyVolatile]

I was toying with that because my sister is an English sister and she thought Chris Rock's joke that "for white people, the sky is the limit, and for black people, the limit is the sky" is nonsensical. But I think at least for us layman types, the shift is on emphasis. The former emphasizes the sky and the second emphasizes the limit as I perceive it.

But what I mean is that I have no idea what it would have been to date the two other women so interested in me. What I know for sure is that I couldn't ask for a better wife.

[HighlyVolatile]

* English major, sorry.

[devoygf]

you are smart

[devoygf]

you should be a English professor

[HighlyVolatile]

Cheers! I'm a tech type though working as an engineer. I habitually overanalyze. I don't have it in me to find nuanced beauty and emotions in things. You ask me to write a poem and the best I can do is write about the beauty of a gray and rainy day. English also isn't my first language.

[devoygf]

keep up the good work

[Anonymous]

Funny it’s almost always women who find themselves in love triangles (or even worse set them up). And women usually end with the guy who is less into them because they like challenge and mystery.

Anyway you are young so I will cut you some slack. Just remember in there is always going to be one winner and one loser in these situations.

This isn’t the movies were the guy who got turned down magically has things work out for him the next day. Also do NOT ask the guy you are less interested to “just be friends”. Just don’t. Instead tell him you respect him so you need to be honest that you are not interested. Given he’s (hopefully) a teenager he may or may not respond well. But he will learn from this experience. Down the road he will be thankful you didn’t assume he was okay with the friendzone.

Anyway please make up your mind sooner than later on which guy you want to date. It’s not fun on the guys end (especially if you are the guy who got rejected) to be in this situation. It sucks.

[Malgaran]

Think actually happen to me on 3 or 4 occasions or more, I dont know what happen, basically I was a loser like most (still am a loser) but suddenly like one day people seem to be more interested in me, I was alone until I was 23, had never been with anyone, but around that time there was a suddenly click, multiple people "fell in love" with me and it continued for many years. I honestly have no idea why. But I do know I started to put myself out there more, could have been it since I was kind of a hermit. Anyway, more to the point. They were all wrong for me, all of them. In a sense I kinda choose who I thought deserved me more and who I thought was kindest of them. But yeah, regardless , nobody was right for each other.

[GlassTop]

Yes. I was a tutor in math and after a few weeks they called me out during downtime and forced me to choose during class. I picked the skinnier one, and bought the wrath of the other. But I wasn’t attracted to either of them. After avoiding the one I chose for a few days, she was in another guys arms in a week. The other I met a few years later, she was smoking cigarettes outside a Walmart and said hi. I often regret not having sex with them because I was extremely popular in school but just too shy to take it to the next level. I remained a virgin until after high school. But im sure girls have these kinds of scenarios much more often and it’s nothing special.

[Anonymous]

Yeah and i like both of them, but I only love one of them.
Last year a multi millioner from USA (online, that I have never met) loved me, but I loved another guy more ( my boyfriend). My relationship with my boyfriend was a bit complicated. And the American man give me more attention than my boyfriend.

It got complicated, I ended up cheating online on Skype with the American guy. But I regretted it so much and told him that i can't be with him because i love my boyfriend more. My boyfriend didn't kmow, but I told him, because I felt so guilty. My boyfriend got sad, but he was understandind, sweet and forgave me. And we are still togethet (10 months together).

By the way, just so you know, I don't care about money much, I like to be independent. So don't missunderstand me and think that I m a golddigger, because I m not. I ve never asked a guy (that is not my family) for money.

[Joker_]

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[ChrisMaster69]

Love… not as such.

however I have been hugely emotionally attracted to more than one person at the same time.

if you remove the love word from it, you have physical and emotional attraction. It’s the latter that is a bitch as it messes up how we think when you are connected to more than one person.

[DaveJord]

No honestly it never happened... serval times I date multiple women but I always cut one off before anyone fell in love. If you do not determine what you really want and decide you will lose both of them. I can not tell you how you feel, need or want out of a relationship... what more important to you or not. But you need to sort it out soon and fast and commit to a relationship if that is what you want.

[Buntyp]

One was still in a relationship and had kids, and I was just too young for instant family. Call me a coward but that was more than I could handle. The relationship with the other didn't last that long either, so that whole kind of scenario is consequently very sketchy to me, nowadays.

[Sincerly_KittyCat]

I loveeee this manga! No, and I dont EVER want to be love triangles I would go nuts. When I read them in manga's or novels, I always feel sorry for the guy that didn't get her heart. Its like when Bella had to turn down Jacob and he was like a sad dog. 🥺

[ohshee]

Yes i have and when all of a sudden all three of us were together it's one of those moments where I'm also going to experience I don't want to be with you either one of them because of the way they're acting and that's what has happened a couple times

[dustybiker]

Yes. I didn’t choose either of them. At the time I was more interested in horses. 😊 Think of all the drama I avoided.

[devoygf]

wierdo

[dustybiker]

@devoygf Thank you.

[DarkCarousel]

I was in a relationship and a good friend confessed that he was in love with me. I was already committed to another person.

[Cypress_L]

I'm still stuck with that problem, but I'm slowly falling more for the 2nd. It's true that "if you truly were in love with the 1st one, you would not have fallen in love with the 2nd one" Why: I talk more to the 2nd one than the 1st... I feel a bit more secure with/around the 2nd as well... so yeah. That's what and why, you're welcome. Have a great day/night, God bless!!

[Whateveryousay99]

2nd one because if I truly was in love with the 1st one, I would not have fell in love with the 2nd one

[Adam1978]

At the same time, not that I am aware of. So no such choosing.

[Iron_Man]

That’s too much work trying to date two woman at once most woman are very demanding and want to be spoiled with high luxurious Not a good idea to ever date two woman at once

[magiusX26]

nope. apparently never experienced even one person falling in love with me.

[LC123]

I am yet to find one person interested in me let alone two 😂

[Juxtapose]

Yeah that's never going to happen in my life lol. The only time I will experience that is if I very specifically try and make it happen or in fiction.

[dtweed1996]

I’m going through that right now but eh whichever one shows the most love is the one I chose while the others I just talk to o or block out