Have you ever been in love with 2 people at the same time?

[Anonymous]

If so what was the outcome? Did you choose one over the other or did you choose both (polyamorous)?

[D_Bone_Steak]

Yup! I had two girlfriends for about 5 years. Japanese girls (I lived in Japan at the time). They knew about each other, and they didn't really talk about it.

So, I finally broke up with one of them because she basically tried to move in. Her being around became fucking torture. I begged my housemate to try and fuck her... he tried and it was fucking hilarious. Anyways, I finally broke up with her.

That's when my other girlfriend became very possessive. She was basically like "Now it's only you and me, no other women now." I was dumb and agreed to that. So I run into the other chick at a bar, I go to her place and bang her. Now she started acting all possessive as well. Said she's going to tell my other girlfriend.

This all might sound a little weird but that's Japan. Both those girls were totally fine with me banging 3 or 4 different hookers every night. I couldn't talk or brag about it though, because for them that is crossing the line. The rules you have to play by are just a bit different is all.

Anyways it all came crashing down when I got in trouble for drinking past midnight. I was on leave, and nobody told me about this new rule, and I got busted. The Captain gave me 14 days of restriction my my chain of command kept me locked up on that ship for over a year. My phone was stolen and then I was basically cut off from the outside world. I was back to no girlfriends after disappearing from the face of the earth for over a year. That's how it truly ended. I ended up coming back to America, met my wife, and then we both went back to Japan, except this time I was a dependent and not the one in the military. Don't tell my wife... but I love banging hookers in Japan.

[SnowedIn]

Yes I have. But could only be with one. The love for the other never really goes away.

[Beccaasaar]

Yes I have they both where what I was looking for and if I could I would put both together, one was a nice formal understanding your feelings guy took care of you, you felt comfortable but his cons was I was more of the man in the relationship, he stopped being a boyfriend, he never did anything nice anymore, didn't listen to you when u were going through a lot of stuff but he was a good man and I wish him a very good future but I messed up my future with him aka house, wedding, maybe kids, first ever love, for the other he was also what I was looking for masculine, over powering, strong, funny, caring, been bestfriends for ever, great love making, understand what I liked how I felt could see if something was wrong when I havnt said anything, cons- toxic, demanding, all about him, can't go anywhere with out him, can't have social media, can't talk to his family, childhood trauma, doesn't trust anyone, doesn't allow you to drink alcohol (even if 1 drink for an occasion), if he doesn't like your girlfriends there gone, making you the problem when it's his, such a flirt with other woman, center of attention, so your answer is yess you can be in love with 2 people at the same time.

[jennifer_bloom]

I have not loved two people in a romantic way before but I have loved two people in a brotherly and fellow friend way before.

[Anonymous]

Yes I have been. In the end, one person is going to have their heart broken.

[Nikki1989]

Only 2?

[LavLavLuv]

Tbh no