Have you ever been in love with two people at the same time?

Wowgirl30q

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Have you ever been in love with two people at the same time?

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BluesheepOwl Follow
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No but I do have two guys that are interested in me that I can text whenever I want. However I am not sure I am ready to date so I might never text them to see which one I am compatible with.

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- Wowgirl30q
  
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  See who text first
  
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- BluesheepOwl
  
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  They don't have my number. They gave me their number and I told them I would text them when I can
  
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StingRayxoxoInfluencer Follow
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I don't think you can fully love two people at the same time, at least not romantic type of love.

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Cammy137 Follow
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Not quite in love, but I've had incredibly strong emotions towards two people at the same time. Perhaps not as intense as love but also not too far from it.

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- Wowgirl30q
  
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  Sucks
  
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- Cammy137
  
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  On no! @ChiTown33 blocked me. How will I cope?
  
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ChiTown33 Follow
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There's no such thing. If you claim to be in love with 2 people at the same time then you don't understand what love is.

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- Cammy137
  
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  Love is a chemical reaction that compels us to breed, remain with a partner, and raise offspring to maturation.
  
  What part of that suggests that you couldn't feel such emotions for two people.
  
  I believe that it is you, sir, who doesn't understand what love is. Perhaps fairytales of soulmates and destiny have rotted your brain.
  
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- Wowgirl30q
  
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  @Cammy137 yessss
  
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- ChiTown33
  
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  @Cammy137 lol cammy you're talking about lust. Lust and limerance. I found your comment about fairytales and soulmates adorable lol.
  It's quite simple really if you love one you don't develop feelings for another, that is selfish. And if you do you're putting yourself ahead of your partner who you either don't love, never did love, or don't love anymore.
  People who say they love more than one person use it as an excuse to slut around, and alleviate them of any responsibility "oh what could i do, i was in love". :)
  
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- Cammy137
  
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  No, my friend. I'm talking about love. Lust doesn't encourage you to stay with your partner. Lust doesn't encourage you to raise a child to maturation. Lust doesn't encourage you to cooperate with tribes/communities. That's love, brother!
  
  I find it difficult to take your answer seriously when you're 43 and still use "lol" like a 13 year old.
  
  Please explain to me why love would be limited to one person, from a purely biological, chemical, psychological, or evolutionary standpoint. Keeping in mind that no other type of love is limited to one person.
  
  I look forward to your answer, brother!
  
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- ChiTown33
  
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  @Cammy137 this is apparently beyond your understanding. When you truly love somebody you put them ahead of you. As i said what you're talking about is limerance (look the word up if you don't know it). It mimicks love but it's just feeling you can have that can last up to 3 years. I'm sorry you have such a toxic view of what love is but don't take it out on me because of it. Good day sir!
  
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- Cammy137
  
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  Good job failing to actually answer the question. Good deflection though: restate your original point, throw in a few insults, but ultimately say nothing of value or meaning.
  
  I'll just assume you're incapable of answering the question, brother!
  
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- ChiTown33
  
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  @Cammy137 like i said you have no understanding of the subject or just a very shallow meaning. i'll chalk it up to your age and just move on. have a nice day
  
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LogorithimInfluencer Follow
Master Age: 52

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No, never. It's not possible to truly have romantic love for two separate people

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AlexanderBrunnrgaard Follow
Yoda Age: 27

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I'm attracted to several women very often but never in love with more than one. I don't fall in love easily to begin with, so the thought of being in love with two women at the same time seems impossible.

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Miss_Savanna_Dry Follow
Xper 7 Age: 29 , mho 30%

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No, as soon as I start forming feelings for a second person, my feelings for the first person starts to disappear

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Grobmate Follow
Xper 7 Age: 43

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No I haven't. Not to say I couldn't, (because I wouldn't know until it happened). But I would ratger put my love and energy into just one soul.

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tonicandgin Follow
Yoda Age: 24 , mho 35%

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yeah. and they both looked so much alike and had similar personalities it was ridiculous

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TacosRAwesome Follow
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Never had it get that far but I've been interested in more then 1 person at a time.

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PrincessGrailInfluencer Follow
Master Age: 36

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Yes.

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- PrincessGrail
  
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  Some people say that love’s a losing game
  You start with fire but you lose the flame...
  
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- Wowgirl30q
  
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  Corny ass 😂
  
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- PrincessGrail
  
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  Blame Bob Seger LMAO
  
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Sabretooth Follow
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no, i haven't... well, unless you count fictional girls.

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GoodGuyBreakingBad Follow
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Yes i liked one girl but yet couldn't get over my ex-girlfriend.

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Juxtapose Follow
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I've never been "in-love" at all and don't know what it's like.

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DiegoO Follow
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No, it must be one of the worst things you can feel.

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loveslongnails Follow
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"In love" ... only 2 at a time? LOL
"Love" ... yes.

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Haffodulla Follow
Xper 5 Age: 24

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Yes I have but I had to make a choice which was hard but I know I made the right one

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Glen68 Follow
Guru Age: 40

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Yes and it feels so wrong

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- Wowgirl30q
  
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  Cee. Senior Glen
  
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- Glen68
  
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  Lmao
  
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Slim57 Follow
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No once I'm in love it doesn't falter to anyone else

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katita Follow
Xper 5 Age: 34

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Yes, that’s what threesome do to you lol

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Ordinarygurl_ Follow
Yoda Age: 22

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No never and cool pic

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MlleCake Follow
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yes, I am now.

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- Wowgirl30q
  
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  Yayyyyyy
  
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2shredded Follow
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Yeah, my left bicep & my right bicep

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Secret6620 Follow
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Yes I have. 🖤

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