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Yikes, imagine continuing to sleep with him even after knowing that he’s married.
I really hope you’re trolling, if not, then think about this.. why would he ever leave his WIFE for YOU? You’re helping him cheat on his wife. Besides, if he does leave her, then how can you be sure that he would not cheat on you as well? Y’all are happy for a while, but he’ll get bored and he will go for someone new and karma will bite you back. I tell you what, stop this shit, tell him to fuck off, work on your self esteem and go find a good, SINGLE man, and stay loyal to him
Good single men need to stay far away from her
I always say this. If they cheat WITH you, they will cheat ON you. You have to cut it short and move on. Being a homewrecker is terrible, but being a cheater is even worse. You have to leave and find someone else who is actually single who is a better fit than this guy. He's not about to go through a divorce, lose half of his assets, pay alimony and possibly a custody battle to be with you. Maybe that should happen to him because he's a cheater afterall, but he won't take that risk. If you are concerned about the morality of the situation, you would leave this guy and run far. If you're not, then I guess you would find out in other ways just how karma can be a sweet bitch.
People who actively fornicate with someone they know is in a relationship, are literal parasites.
You literally are taking what you can in an attempt to destroy their relationship and make it yours.
Anyone who will fuck you while married will fuck someone else while with you. Don’t be that female who believes you are “the better woman” and only feels validated by fucking some other women’s man.
You are not the better woman. 90% of men who cheat never plan on leaving their partners.
(also: 70% of single women claim they only find men who are already taken as attractive, and 50% of those actively partake in partner sniping.)
I’m not going to judge as I really don’t know your state of mind or even your situation as a person but I will tell you this…He stands to lose more by leaving his marriage completely so no…He probably won’t ever leave his marriage for you, which should be a blessing because it will give you time to end this and work towards what you actually want in a relationship. It’s actually much worse off if he leaves his wife for you as you will live in perpetual anxiety because you will probably be counting down the days till he does to you what he did to his wife.
Walk away girl. Just walk away.
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You’re being a homewrecker. Cut off all contact and stop interfering with married mens lives.
There are plenty of single men out there. Find them instead of doing that.
He is also to blame, but you are also a part of the issue.
This is really hard for me to answer, because my whole life I’ve been affected by cheating husbands. My dad cheated on my mum with his mistress and ruined our family basically, and a girl who was my friend fully went after my boyfriend behind my back while he was with me. Each time, I hated the “other woman” with a passion because they gave off desperate and insecure vibes. I mean it’s a given that you’re in the wrong here and so is the guy. If he wanted you that much, he would make himself single before going after you. It sounds like he wants to have his cake and eat it too. He’s just not that into you, sorry to break it to you.
I'm sorry to hear that. I understand your story and how it feels more than I'd like to. I hope you are better off now. 🤗
So, basically he is your sugar daddy. Last time a married man wanted a sexual relationship with me, I just came out and told him like it is! I said I want a house, a new car, credit cards, everything your wife has! Then I added " And all I get is just YOU? - no thanks!". After all, why shouldn't we get all the things his wife has if we are going to just have sex with him? Creep! I deserve more than that. My can have sex with the male cats. I'm not doing what my cat 😺 does and not all the frills! I am wife material, not slut material.
Oh, he wants you alright. You're gullible and easy.
If he'll cheat on her, he'll cheat on you. You don't need to know about past behavior being an indicator of future behavior. You're living it. He's a serial... whatever tf you wanna call him. He has his cake (wife) and he's eating it too (you). If and/or when he dumps his wife, to supposedly be with you, don't be surprised when he dumps you for another younger girl.
SMH 🙄👎
Bringing you food? That's a weird thing to include. Are you bedridden or something?
So this is your biggest concern? If he likes you or not? Put your selfish feelings aside and think about how, his wife would feel if she knew. Understand that the guy you are fucking is a complete piece of shit who will drop you in a heartbeat. Work on respecting yourself, because clearly you don't.
People like you who willingly sleeps with someone else knowing they’re married deserves no happiness. In the future when you get married, hopefully your husband sleeps with some younger girl and pays her. Think of it this way, that guy is basically killing someone and you’re his accomplice. Now according to law what do you think happens to you? Just because there isn’t a law and punishment for cheating by knowing they’re married etc then it doesn’t mean it’s wrong. Hope both you and that guy gets what you deserve
Well you’re an idiot first of all. He’s not going to leave his wife to be with you and if by some miracle he does it will be because his wife dumbed his ass for being a cheating bastard and you’re his only choice. Then he will end up cheating on you.
What I don't understand is why you women get involved in ANY way to begin with when you know he's married. What do you do to avoid this happening, get this ingrained in your head, married equals NOT AVAILABLE and NEVER WILL BE. He won't leave her for you, end of story. And if you're not finding out right away that he's married (because he doesn't tell you), ask him when you first meet him. Do some "investigating" of your own such as google searches, social media pages etc that might tell you he's not available.
Assume that he will never leave her. Don't you have any concern for her? If he did leave her for you, them he would cheat on you with someone else. Don't you want someone who is focused only on you? I've known a few women in your position and it never ended happily for them.
Have some self respect and end it. I had a coworker have feelings for me and I'm married. I fell in love with her. But we both knew it was wrong. Neither of us wanted it to stop. I ended it before it could progress to sex. She was devastated.
I will tell you this- he won't leave his wife for you, especially if he has kids.
You're basically his personal prostitute who he can pay with money or food.
Options
1. Wise up, and understand the situation as it is. This guy is trash, use him for money.
2. If he isn't crazy, violent, or both; gather up proof and tell/show his wife he's a cheater and then ghost him.
3. Wise up and ghost him. Out of sight, and eventually out of mind. Find you a man with great core values and will love you and only you.
Well you knew he was married and you're still sleeping with him so you're just as naughty as he is and the fact that he's 36 in your 22 you like older guys obviously. Why don't you send me a private message and we'll talk about it and I'll tell you what's up
I hope the man's wife ruins your two. Cheap women like you deserve absolutely no support or respect. You're only cheap bits of women who break marriages. 🤮 You have no value. May God take women like you and vile men who value women like you to Hell.
👏👏hell is the place for them
You both are using each other , anyways it's started don't engage in relationship with him let it run its course untill you find someone you really love and not just for money.
And he can't moral police you or blame you when you wished to stop so it's all in your hands
He will get what he deserves so will you eventually
You're just 22. You can have men flocking to you like pigeons. There's no need to get yourself tangled with a married one. Say, you don't know his wife and you don't care about her... But what if there's something wrong with him?
And let's not forget, these married people always promise they'd leave their spouses. Hint : they never do.
What if you get pregnant? What if his wife is infertile and you're forced to keep that baby? Just think about this.
He may want you to have some fun once in a while but he's not going to leave his wife. It seems to me that is purely sexual and he just does all those favors because you have sex with him in exchange. Perhaps he does the same to other women and one day he's going to get sick of it.
You're just a toy to him you put yourself in a shit situation with your bad choices and disrespect and disregard for that man's family. You deserve all the bad that comes from this. I hope his wife finds out.
Definitely leave this relationship because cheating especially with a married person is 100% wrong and it could get ugly where you can regret this for the rest of your life. You're very young and you have a lot to live for especially with the right person. I have been an C. P. officer for over 20 years and I have seen drama that can be damaging plus dangerous in situations like this. Please leave this man. ❤
If you’re looking for a relationship with him, there’s an extremely high chance he’ll just cheat on you with another woman later down the line. If he’s so easily done it to his wife, for months, he can just as easily do it to you.
If you knew earlier that he is married, you shouldn't go to bed with him. No one normal does like that. If he loves his wife, he will never leave her. It's not normal that he pays you.. Better stop it.
The simple answer is... just stop. Stop what you're doing. You've been taken in. He's a married man who's cheating on his wife with you and has probably told you he'd leave his wife, just to get you to have sex with him. If you got pregnant, that would be the ultimate test of the truth of his words...
This never ends well. You're nothing more than a side piece of @ss. At the end of the day, you have to realize you chose to get involve with someone who was already taken. It doesn't matter what he offered you, but that's why it's best to get your own instead of being something on the side
He's doing that to keep you around to keep having sex with you. On some level he probably cares about you, but not enough to break it off with his wife. More than likely he really doesn't care that much about either of you. If he did he would pick one.
My opinion on this… the damage to his marriage is already done. He will most likely never leave his wife for you. And if he does, he will likely do the same thing to you down the line.
No good can come of this situation.
How you get them is how you lose them. He’s married run for the hills. Also you know he’s married so that is just horrible, very juvenile behavior.
First of all, you should stop sleeping with a married man. About he wanting you, probably he would cheat on you the same way he does with her wife now.
Congratulations on winning a Troll of the day award.
Go ahead and Marry him. You both shared so many intimate moments so memtally he divorced his wife already.
If he doesn't says yes then record all the proof, show it to his wife and then boom, watch the carnival show while having popcorns.
he's using you. he's not your man. He belongs to his wife.
Hahaha, this is nothing unusual. Really.
girls like you are wooed by money and gifts.
girls like you are plenty.
nothing out of the ordinary.
i see girls, who are working horses and are not so likely bought by men with money.
You can't be this stupid so I figure you are just trolling for effect.
He’s getting all the benefits of you and your relationship without any negatives. He will never leave his wife for you - why would he when he has the best of both words?
When you get married and your husband starts cheating on you, you won't be able to complain at all over anything. Try to live with yourself now.
It sounds like his wife isn’t giving him sex or he is getting something from you his wife isn’t giving him. You can have your fun, but you’d be a fool to get with him. He will find a woman to replace you the same way he is replacing his wife.
He wants you, and that's why he has sex with you, but that doesn't mean he wants you over his wife or that he will leave her for you. You're being pretty naive.
Deuteronomy 22:22 - If a man be found lying with a woman married to an husband, then they shall both of them die, both the man that lay with the woman, and the woman: so shalt thou put away evil from Israel.
Do what you want. However imagination of any possible future for this relationship is pointless because he is using you.
As long as you are okay to have your future husband do the same to you… what can I say..
I'm not going to judge you for it because there's really no point, and I'm sure you've heard all that, at least in movies. What do you want out of your relationship with him? Your answer to this question will heavily impact my reply to you.
what do you think? if he cheated on his wife with you , do u really think he will not cheat you in the future with someone else?
a cheater is always a cheater.
If he'll cheat on his wife now, likely he'll cheat on the next wife... if there is a next wife. 😒
If this isn’t a troll post… WTF are you doing! End it now! How would you feel if it was your husband cheating on you!
Nothing like “young stuff “ on the side.
As the saying goes. If he cheats with you, he will cheat on you!
How would you feel if you were his wife?
He's never going to leave his wife. Please trust that and end it with him before this does more harm than anyone ever intended
Let him go. Or at least not wait for him. He is not going to leave his wife. If he do you will not be able to trust him that he may leave you for someone else.
Well once a cheater then always a cheater. He won’t ever change ever.
He'll never leave his wife. You're a fool to believe otherwise
God, that's gross and could potentially turn toxic especially considering the age gap and the fact that he's married. Get out and get therapy- I've nothing else to add.
He doesn't want you. Most women realize this, but the weak minded ones with daddy issues, and needs for attention.. no matter the source... will fall for it.
Social distancing yourself from this guy is my advice
Both of you assholes deserve each other. Poor wife tho
Yeah, that's s real dead end. He will tell you anything to keep you hooked.
He’ll eventually cheat on you too.
So basically you’ve got a sugar daddy who’s paying you and spoiling you to be his side piece. Good luck with that one.
I'd say go for it. Steal him away from his wife so he can cheat on you too
You aren't any better than him.
Both complete shits.
And hopefully miserable for the rest of your lives 😗
You're the side chick. If he leaves his wife for you, he will probably have another side chick like you when he's with you.
If you are not looking for a long term relationship then continue, use the money to get whatever you want
If he's cheating on her for you, he'll cheat on you with someone else somewhere further down the road.
Now you are a poor woman in my eyes. The man is using your body and you allow it. Do you consider yourself worthless?
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