What does being a disservice in a relationship mean!?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend & I just got into a huge argument about bills & money, and he told me he feels like he's doing a "disservice" to me. I'm currently out of work & he is paying for a lot more than I unforutantly can right now. It's hard as it is but then he just blew up on me about finances... :( I don't know how to feel...

[me27821]

He's doing a disservice to you? That doesn't really make sense, but it sounds like he just feels like he's unable to provide for you, and it's really bothering him.

[SunSeeker]

disservice |dis's?rvis|

noun [usu. in sing. ]

a harmful action : you have done a disservice to the African people by ignoring this fact.