Childfree men, on what date you clarify you wouldn't want children even in future?

[fonduegirl]

It's good to discuss it with your partner as soon as possible

[Fuentes]

I think if any women discusses kids to early i will run away

[Fuentes]

Thank you

[Juxtapose]

It would probably come up in the first or second date.

[kitkills]

It depends on how close you get in a time frame. Hitting it off, third date. Long enough for them to be attached to you a good amount if they do want kids, so when you break the news that you don't they are more likely to reconsider. But still not far-in enough to be considered leading them on. Unless that's what you want to do.

[TheBigGuy9]

You can mention it on the first date if you want. It’s better to do that right away. One of the most important things (in my opinion) in a relationship is being on the same level with one another, right? In fact, if you’re doing online dating, I’d put that in your profile.

[KolonKby]

Whenever the topic comes up, I'm very open-book so ask a question and you will get an answer lol

Also because I got a vasectomy, so me not wanting kids is pretty significant and can't be worked around lmao

[loveslongnails]

PRE-date!! It's a deal breaker for me. Why would I waste time dating a woman who wants kids, or waste her time? Maybe if she was dtf? As long as she understood I wasn't ever going to change my mind.

[Kaneki05]

Right away. Same with other things that right away make any date in the future pointless.

[the_sinner]

If I were a childfree guy I’d have subtly mentioned it in the second or third date. In the first I’d never get the time to talk about personal topics like these.

[Jamie05rhs]

ALL potential deal-breakers should be discussed on the FIRST date. I'm a business man. Don't waste my time. I won't waste yours, either.

[Jamie05rhs]

by the way, I don't have children, but I don't need them. I could take them or leave them.

[fonduegirl]

So are you childfree or do you want them?

[Jamie05rhs]

@anon1903 I thought childfree just meant not having any yet.

[Jamie05rhs]

And we already had this conversation last year lol. Remember? ;) I don't care if I have kids or not.

[fonduegirl]

I have conversations with many men, hon. Of course I don't remember.

I see.

[Jamie05rhs]

@anon1903 Aw. That's cold. 😂
But lol it's alright.

[Tstrbrainer]

If it is for a serious relationship, I think it should be discussed ASAP.

[EaterPeter]

Within first 6 months. She can brought up the topic too if having kids is important to her.

[TsAubreyKate]

I don’t really have a say in it ever hear of Dani dolce booty magic

[dolemite89]

on whatever date the topic comes up 🤷‍♂️