If you found out he has a girlfriend/wife?

[tootles303]

If you found out the guy that you were interested in and sleeping with has a girlfriend/wife would you tell her?

[ScottStevens]

It is amazing that one can develop a close enough relationship with someone to start having sex together, but never discuss if that person is actually available. Happens often!

Yes he is a cheater and this probably has hurt you. Rather directly inform him he is out of the picture in your life. Let him know he is also destroying another relationship and more importantly another person who is committed to him.

This relationship was never going forward and never going to be a long term solution for you. Move on and I promise your honesty to yourself will be rewarded in the future. In the end, what really matters is how you feel about yourself.

[tootles303]

I told her and she didn’t respond

[ScottStevens]

Not a shock that she didn't respond. She's pissed off and to busy shoving this up his ass to care about you. You too have been hurt by this guy and I hope telling her took some of the edge off your pain.

Move on and use this experience when meeting guys of interest in the future. Before you get to serious you will want to know if they are attached. Sorry this guy was so disrespectful

[spartan55]

Would you stop the guy is probably a more important question here.

[tootles303]

Yes already have..

[spartan55]

Good decision. I'm split on telling the wife/girlfriend, every situation is different I suppose.

[tootles303]

I told her and she didn’t respond to me!

[spartan55]

She probably chose to put the Blinders of Denial and thinks you are some Jezebel trying to steal her man.

[Anonymous]

I would absolutely tell her and I’d provide evidence as I know these sorts of lowlifes never admits anything and come up with whatever lie they can to try to cover their asses.

[tootles303]

Would pictures and a videos of him jack in off in the shower work as proof? Or texts be better?

[tootles303]

If I could describe the apartment and where he lives and his dog that’s proof too right?

[boggboss]

Yeah I would then cut it off

[tootles303]

I already cut him off… but he don’t know that I have her number…

[boggboss]

If u don't then just move on

[tootles303]

Cheaters should be caught….

[boggboss]

Yeah they should but u don't have her number so

[tootles303]

I do have her number.

[boggboss]

So contact her do u have proof?

[boggboss]

Just show texts

[tootles303]

I have pictures of him and a video of him playing with him self in the shower. I have text. I can describe where he lives at where he moved to his dog.

[boggboss]

Just show the texts you don't need to shoe her vids or pics

[tootles303]

What if I send her the pics and videos and some texts delete and block her number!

[boggboss]

Why would u do that thats not normal just send her a message say you are sorry to have to tell u but your husband is a cheater he slept with me whilst claiming to be single I only later found out he was married and then provide the texts as proof why act like a weirdo if u want to tell her dont act like a pussy

[AviatorTom]

Why, she probably already knows.

[jahaims]

Yep.

[tootles303]

I told her and she didn’t respond.

[Mysteryman9854]

I would

[Anonymous]

yes.