Do you think the past matters in a relationship? (Page 2)

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Do you think the past matters in a relationship?

elizamichale1 · Answer

I believe if ine has had a bad past but they r a changed person now then their past should be ignored

exitseven · Answer

Yes because we are the sum total of our experiences.

Darine123 · Answer

Yes, it is but there’s no reason for you to focus on his/her past.

skyeee_ · Answer

it would matter if your partner previously cheated on you or just has a bad history of crimes.

UniquelyBasic · Answer

The past can give us an idea about what might happen in the future, so yes.

HotelWhiskey27 · Answer

Being open and honest now matters sexual history prior relationships past sins none of those matter as long as you are who you are now

AdithyaR · Answer

Yes it matters. Example, if the person had cheated in a past relationship, I would want to know that cause I wouldn't be with a cheater.

Anonymous · Answer

Most definitely! Because people do not change at their core. A person's past tells you who they are as a person. When someone hides their past I know it's because they're trying to hide the truth about themselves.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Yes! Thoughts and decisions, much like other ones are altered and changed. But there is no reason at all to talk about past relationships in a new one!

megabamse · Answer

Depends on how fresh the past is. A few years ago is fine. A few months ago, not so fine.

Alyssa_11 · Answer

No unless they cheated on their ex or something like that.

Anonymous · Answer

No one wants a serial killer in their life. But if you are just talking about body count, I don't care.

themalebicon · Answer

i mean if you have a past like being abusive or being toxic you obviously have to fix that, i know i would not want to date a toxic person. if its really bad like the dude raped someone b4 then obvi it matters u can't trust him.

AlwaysBelieving · Answer

Yes it does. "Even if someone doesn't have a past, they have a past". I'll let that sink in for a moment.

annabananna · Answer

If the past gets brought into the relationship it does.

Richy_Rich · Answer

Everything matters. Especially because im libra ♎

Anonymous · Answer

Why do guys like girls who have been fucked before? Is their self esteem that low? Hookups I can respect but building relationships? Brah she not ur girl it’s just ur turn 🤣

Random_girl_lol · Answer

nope. sometimes it does though (if it affects the relationship)

Shy_Steve · Answer

I reckon the past and the future shouldn't matter, The Present is what Matters.

anton_dee · Answer

Yes. The past indicates the personality of the person. It's important to know the history of the person before committing into a relationship

iFarted · Answer

To a certain extent. As long as they've learned from their past and is a better person from their experiences.

legalboxers · Answer

Past is what forms you.. past is what shapes you.. past is what makes your more leery from what is going on

Anonymous · Answer

Depends, if it’s an unresolved issue in the relationship yes. If it’s something about an ex then possibly. It all just depends on what happened.

Anonymous · Answer

The past matters only to the extent they are still living in it or didn't learn from it.

jasco · Answer

The past makes the present and the future. So yes it does.

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

Past behavior is the single best predictor of future behavior.

Anonymous · Answer

Sure it matters, it tells you something about someone's character and what kind of life they have been leading. And if you are trying to hide your body count, why is that?

clampfan101 · Answer

Only if it comes up again and gets it the way of the future. If it’s over, it’s over.

Waldoe · Answer

Yes... but only if the past includes a conviction for Child-rape... but not for everyday stuff

Better_off_here · Answer

no because you are the present and that is all that should matter. never let the past get in a way of what you could have :)

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, it matters. As someone else said, the past is the best predictor of the future. So ignoring it is unwise.

innerman · Answer

No. but if it keeps showing up, then it’s a problem

Zolly99999 · Answer

Absolutely! .. it defines who you were , who you are now and who you should be in the future..

whosnumber1 · Answer

to a certain point. the future is what matters most

Twalli · Answer

It does. Nobody goes into any relationship, even a friendship with a clean slate.

OddBeMe · Answer

Only that it’s the best evidence for how you will treat your current SO.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes it hugely matters, I don't care about others opinion on it but I don't a women that sleep around or have way too much sexual experience before me.

Nice222 · Answer

I wanted to know about my wife’s past, but I never let it effect my opinion of her.

Magarmor64 · Answer

it all depends on what part of the past you want to matter

StrikeJam · Answer

Past is an experience that has an influence to our behavior in a present time.

michael1469 · Answer

shouldn't, but you should have learned from your past and hers...

Anonymous · Answer

Yes it does, at least to me, it matters a lot,  I mean you wouldn't join a company if the company had a bad history , would you?

Lohulla · Answer

Yeah it matters… your partner should know about your past.

jimmy2 · Answer

It can that why i alway say lets get the past out of us and start with a clean slate

jömmy_fkn_michael · Answer

Of course... don't kid yourself. It's what made us.

Jagad · Answer

Yaa most of the guys thnk abut the past n thnk abut there memories

Wilhelmstrasse · Answer

Yes it does. only a foolish man wants a woman who's had 300+🍆 in her

AwesomeCookie · Answer

Yes to some degree

Anonymous · Answer

100% it matters. Your past makes up who you are.

weysally · Answer

no I don't, unless people keep asking about it

Logan_V96 · Answer

Yes, the past is the best predictor of the future

IveGotNoName · Answer

Depends on what it is.

Wester1967 · Answer

If you were born yesterday then it doesn't matter.

Phoenix98 · Answer

It depends on that persons past.

reyesdavina · Answer

I don't think so. Should judge off of them now.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Nope, it does not with me

Lalelixox · Answer

Yes it does. Not so much though.

driven159 · Answer

No past is the past case closed

motownplayer2000 · Answer

Not unless the other side hasn’t let go of it

TheFlak38 · Answer

I love it when whores say it doesn't matter.

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