Is it fair for modern women to want traditional men or vice versa?

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Yes

No

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+1 y

Then explain how being hypocritical is fair to those who say it is

[Anonymous]

I think modern women want traditional men. The problem is that they don't want to be traditional women.
They want a man that will support them and take of them while they are not as appreciative as traditional women are. They don't need a man, so why should they appreciate one?

[Dchrls78104]

I am a traditional man. I cannot deal with modern women.

[SecretsofKB]

Honestly, I doubt that anyone who is "modern" or "traditional" isn't going to go for someone that isn't really the same as them. It just won't be natural.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Yet opposites attract. How do you expect a relationship to work out if both are overdoing the exact same thing without doing the other responsibility? Teamwork don't go well if everyone do thesame.

[SecretsofKB]

Opposites attract to a degree. If you can't agree on some basic things, then it will never work.

My SO and I have really differing personalities to be honest. But we both have many of the same goals and ideals and moral values. We definitely differ, but not to an extreme.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

So do similarity attract only to a degree. The reason why society expanded because of the differences of every individual humans which is exactly what created the power of leverage.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I can't stand mental opposites, opposites only attract physically (ie opposite genders).

[Aiko_E_Lara]

A man dating a man. They're mentally thesame. I don't think that works out for me. I take back what i said about "opposites" but i mean difference attracts. Different don't mean opposite.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

I think that doesn't need to be taken litterally. That's just what magnets do and used as an analogy

[TheSpaceGnome]

for me it has to be basically the same mind as mine, but in a female body.

[Apulu_3]

It's not wrong to want Traditional Man being Modern. It's just that they don't deserve traditional man.

[whereismyjohnny]

Not like they would want traditional guy 🤣

[Apulu_3]

I never said that.

[Cuminginside]

I saw what you did there I like that very smooth.

[Apulu_3]

@Cuminginside Yeah 😂

[Anonymous]

Os hypocritical for a traditional men to want a modern woman?

[Iron_Man]

I think they want good traditional man

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Without being traditional as well? Kinda hypocritical

[Iron_Man]

Right

[Cuminginside]

This is what you want this is what you got.

[Hanrej]

"Fair" has little to do with "want."

[Aiko_E_Lara]

However the thoughts are still there. Just like asking if it's fair if the government wants you to work without getting paid at all AKA slavery. The answer is "yes or no" that simple. No need to get too technical

[ItsMeElliana]

why not lmao

[Aiko_E_Lara]

It has something to do with wanting the best of both worlds