Do you think she loves me for the wrong reasons?

[andyyoung123]

this my girl says she loves me. but when I ask her to give me reasons she says I'm funny, interesting and kind hearted.am funny to me means am a clown, am interesting means am a guy and am kind hearted means I can't dump her what do you guys and girls think...

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yoh! guys thanks for the contributions, they were appreciated

[ShootingStar5]

You're taking good things that she likes about you and making them sound like negative or superficial things. Funny means you make her laugh and she has fun with you. Not all guys are interesting, some are pretty damn boring so that's a good thing too. And kind-hearted means you generally treat people nicely.

It's easier to tell someone the things you love about them then why you love them. Obviously the things she likes about you are part of what made her fall for you. And love is an emotion that you feel, sometimes it's hard to put words to something like that. I'd probably be at a lose for words if my boyfriend asked me the same question even though I know I love him deeply. So that's probably why she answered with that.

[ShootingStar5]

at a loss*

[Frappucino214]

Theres nothing wrong with any of the answers she gave you. The fact that you are saying kind hearted means 'I can't dump her' is just showing that you probably are scared that the relationship is going to become serious and your not looking for something serious at the moment.

The three qualities she described you with are somethings which most girls look for in a guy. Someone to make them laugh, that they enjoy talking to and someone who is good inside.

[Apodyopsis]

If you really love someone, chances are you'll find it really hard to say why. Those things she listed, they're probably qualities she loves about you.

Actions speak louder than words though. Unless she gives you a reason to doubt her feelings for you, you're good.

Enjoy it.

If a guy asked me why I loved him, I'd probably be speechless.

[superuss]

Most people don't know how to describe the reasons they love someone. They just do. I really doubt she is with you because you are a "male clown that won't dump her". You really need to focus on learning to love yourself.

[ShootingStar5]

I agree.

[BCRanger10]

Those are all good things. She listed off a bunch of things that she loves ABOUT you, but may not be able to know how to tell you WHY she loves you. She sounds like she's in it for the right reasons, though.

[HidingMyHeart]

She may not know how to describe her love for you. And aside from that fact, her loving you for being funny and kind-hearted is a whole lot better than her loving you for your looks :)

[Anonymous]

what reasons do you think are the right ones?

[andyyoung123]

maybe am sexy,i drive her crazy,etc

[NickieLas101891]

Those are alright...