So me and my boyfriend, we have been together for nearly 2 years, we love each other a lot. we have a baby together. Point is he’s attracted to curvy women, always has. He’s a gym rat, and loves a good ass on a woman. I’m slim , my body is meh , my face is only a 10/10 , he says I have one beautiful face , and obviously personality. we have amazing sex, but deep down I feel shit about my body , I’m trying to gain weight and work out , but there are days where i just want to cry and just lay in bed , wearing baggy clothes Because of this issue , I’m very insecure and we argue a lot , and I hate it because I know there’s so many attractive women on this planet with gorgeous bodies , juicy asses. I try to dress sexy for him , but I feel shit about it and how I look , so it just puts me down:( I know he watches big bootey chicks on tiktok… he told me himself because that’s what he’s attracted too , he has a gym body and he’s attracted to a good gym body , but he said that doesn’t mean he will cheat on me , his words “men are simple , we see a good body on tiktok, we watch and move on with our life “ I know he won’t , cheat on me , but I’m still upset about it. tbh what man doesn’t watch asses on tiktok. I’m 5’7 and weight 69kg currently. here’s a picture of how I look like,and how I want to look like How I look like again
What to do if your boyfriend is attracted to curvy women, but you are slim?
I am still single but i wish mine was having the same attitude as yours (pleasing and looking just like your guy desires). Anyways, here are some tips. Boost your estrogen. Estrogen is a fat accumulating hormone. Dont go for injectibles or medications but instead eat foods which increases your estrogen like soy, cashews. Next tip: try herbals like alfalfa. Read about it. Estrogen accumulates fat so it will give you a belly, hit the gym hard, train planks, squats and stiff legged deads. That will keep your belly flat. Estrogen is responsible for many more functions like bone growth, remodeling, maintenance. (If you've enough of it it will widen your pelvic bone (giving you more surface in your booty) as well, not accurately sure about it though. Talk to your doc about it.) Also estrogen boosts collagen and hyaluronic acid giving you that sexy plumpy super tight skin... 😍😍😍 Also it delays menopause. So boost your estrogen naturally. Talk to your doc about it. And i am really impressed by you. Please your man the way he wants!! ✌️😋
I think you are way too hard on yourself. Just because guys have a particular preference doesn’t mean we don’t like other things. I really like big boobs, but if the girl I was with had small breasts it wouldn’t bother me at all. Your pictures are clearly not as slim and plain as you are describing. You have a loving boyfriend and a family. If you want to make a change, go to the gym with him. But appreciate the body you have. Many woman would be extremely jealous of it.
Also most of the TikTok’s and Instagram models are using tricks to make themselves look more curvy and attractive than they are. Never compare yourself to women parading themselves on social media.
Take it from a female gym rat who's got pictures looking identical to the ones you want to look like----it's all posing and lighting and angles!! I promise. As for your man, in my opinion I would not be with a man who says stupid shit like that or looks at other females on tik tok. It's shallow and the fact that he does not see that demonstrates a lack of maturity. Tell him how that makes you feel. If he doesn't hear you and stop immediately, you have an issue. It's one thing for a man to think with the wrong head, it's another for him to continue doing so after you tell him how it makes you feel. Especially something so easy for him to change. It's common sense for him to change something like that and shows he respects you.
See if you two can work out together! That may help your relationship strengthen as you both grow.
I would like to point out you are gorgeous and have an amazing body! I totally feel you on the insecurities of your own body. Honestly the best thing you can do is to try to stop comparing yourself. I know I’m in the same boat😞 Relationships are built on way more than just physical attraction and just bc you’re not his specific type doesn’t mean he isn’t head over heels or doesn’t find you just as attractive. Try to keep that in the back of your mind when you start to feel overwhelmed by your insecurity. He might be looking at other asses but it’s yours he wants.
Kick his 🚼 out the door 🚪 and drag it to the curve. Obviously, your Acura shape will not please a 67 Mustang Guy. —You are an attractive woman. You will wear much better over time and he will be 😭 in his 🍺. -You could have babyx2 and grow nicely into Betty Boop bottom curve. Keep a hourglass Waist no matter what… ⌛️: post Baby Momma
Many different people not, just men, are attracted to others that they are not involved with romantically having a pure attraction is human and he should not be judged merely on that. If he shows too much interest or uncountable interest in someone who fit that description he deserves to be asked about it poignantly. Good luck with your relationship and your baby.
Him being with you for 2 years isn't enough? He hasn't cheated to your knowledge so what is the big deal?
What? You don't think I know what it's like to be with someone who prefers a different type of body? Almost every woman wants a ripped guy who is super confident. I'm not ripped and more of a humble guy so yeah.. find acceptance of yourself and demand the same of your lover or find a new lover.
girl you honestly look amazing, no need to change yourself. and if he's constantly shaming you for your appearance/saying you're not his type tbh just break up with him.
Eat some burgers and do some excersizes.. usually when guys say curvy we don't mean fat but probably a little more meat than you got so it probably won't take much for you to achieve
@lrina well I didn't read the whole question I jus read the title and was assuming she wanted to try and get more curvy for him... If she don't then fine.. leave him n find someone who likes her body...
I jus get it confused cos if I ever had a girlfriend who said she likes more muscles on guys or something I wouldn't be offended and I'd probably try and get some muscles for her out of free wil jus to please her as it wouldn't take much effort... but I forgot girls don't like to change and wanna find people for who like them exactly how they are lol
@koolkidkv93 even then, you really didn't have to change your looks just for a girl. in a healthy relationship, she should just be happy enough with how you look and just leave it at that.
@lrina yeah i know but thas not the point the point is doing it out of love and caring and if u want them to be happy why not do it, its like doing the dishes for someone when u really can't be bothered or going to shop to get them something when u can't be bothered, u know u dont have to but u do it cos u want to out of love treat them
You look great, I like slim women, I don’t like big booty like some guys do, you’ll gain weight there eventually like most women as you age but don’t ruin your health trying to be his ideal right now
as long as u don’t have a complete pancake ass u should be alright. i prefer bigger asses too but if a girl is pretty and has other positive attributes it’s not a deal breaker if she’s not packing back there lol
Ok, after briefly considering your 2nd pic into my spank bank.. I realized that you have thighs and don't want to show them. Also tictac or whatever it's called is E-cancer!
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