We've been living of beans on tins of soup and can't afford to put the heating on. I recently had a birthday and this is when I became suspicious he took me out for a very expensive meal and bought me loads of expensive presents I thought it was all very sweet of him but I was also concerned were all this money had came from. I even suggested he take some of my presents back because we can't afford them but he insisted I kept them and got mad and said it was his job to make sure I have nice things and have a good life with him.
He's very sweet and he's always been a good honest man but I was starting to worry he could be involved in some criminal activities and this was were he could be getting money from. He usually goes out in the late evenings to check on his grandmother and keeps her company and sees her off to bed.
One evening I rang her to let him know id be out with my sister so when he comes back I might not be in. She told me he wasn't at hers and hasn't been for a while now.
I became evening more worried so i decided to confront him when we were both back home.
He seemed really embarrassed and didn't want to tell me because he thought I'd be mad which I was once he opened up but I know his intentions were meant well. He told me all he has to fall back on is his looks and but he felt really ashamed of it. He has dyslexia and struggles really bad with jobs. He will always do great at first but the he gets but in for further training and he has to do tests and he fails and it knocks his confidence to try again.
He said he doesn't mind stripping as long as the woman don't touch him. He says he tries to find the funny side in it and not take himself to seriously