What can make a relation last and leads to marriage up to you?

[Anonymous]

[Chris_Chambers0010]

There's a few things you can do to help a relationship last longer.

- Both partners quitting drinking, drugs and partying helps.
- Trying not to argue or say hurtful things to each other.
- Making time to have a healthy sex life with each other.
- Try to spend more time with your partner than your co-workers.
- Discuss your goals for the future and make sure you're on the same page.
- Don't flirt or cheat with other people.

These things can help, but ultimately you can never control what your partner will do in a relationship. They can literally wake up one morning and change their mind about you. They can break up with you a ANY TIME and there's nothing you can do but accept it.

[megabamse]

To never win a fight, but to figure out how to fix the problem, that's the win. To be tolerant. To be honest, the help each other grow. To keep the romance going. Nothing is a competition. Share some of your life and be part of some of his. Also 75 25. Meaning you give him 75% of you to him, and keep 25 to yourself. Don't accept things blindly, if there is a problem it need to be addressed.

[LaNc3L0TT]

The way you two are acting and how you take things serious, are your goals same, etc. There is lot of things which needs to be aligned to make things work.

[Adam1978]

She being rich like a troll. While still being girlfriend material, so I know it's not a scam.