My boyfriend is (sexsually) in experienced, what should I do?

[Anonymous]

Don't get me wrong. I love everything about him. He's so sincere, caring, and gentle. And a lot of times, I really eant to kiss him or makeout with him (I'm not into s*x for now). But he can't even read my signals. I think he's adorable tho :< I'd still want to kiss him.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

So, you’re saying he’s inexperienced and can’t really read your signals of wanting to kiss and be intimate (excluding sex)? Or does he not really know how to kiss and whatnot?


I think you should communicate with him that you’re really attracted to him, you have the urge to kiss him, etc. I think he might just not really know his or your comfort level with that stuff, so he might need you to be direct with him.


Talking to him about it, your wants, such as kissing and making out, etc. Maybe he will be like “OH! Okay!!” I guess, try to take the lead and be more direct with him.

[Asker]

Thank you. I guess I need to tell it. I just don't know how.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

I feel ya lol. I wanted to kiss my boyfriend for the first time, but I didn’t know how to say it, so I just did it 🤦🏻‍♀️ Smh lol. But, being direct is honestly the best, just say “you’re so cute, I could kiss you” and lean in. He will definitely be able to read that signal

[Asker]

Right, may be I should be vocal. I tried to lean on him and he'll just say "you're so cute".

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Ahh, I see. I guess reciprocating the compliments would be good. Try and compliment his lips, try and touch his face and his lips, that will be a good hint?

[pleasestopthis]

You can't expect an inexperienced person to read your signals, that's something that is learned through experience. Enjoyable sex is about communicating what each of you enjoy, so don't be shy and tell him what you like and how you like it.

[TheSpaceGnome]

If he is already your boyfriend then you should not need signals, you can just grab, hug, kiss, etc whenever.

Before he was your boyfriend, signals were too subtle.

Women need to stop sending signals, hints, etc. to guys, being sutble DOES NOT WORK, be a very direct and blunt perv (but only toward one guy obviously).

[LaNc3L0TT]

What are your signals which he can't get it? Maybe you are giving them in wrong way? :D

[Asker]

I'm touching his face and getting closer to him. Then he'll say "you're so beautiful, did you know that?"

[LaNc3L0TT]

Haha, my guy is being romantic. :D Well if you wanna make out little bit "more", look that you are being alone in room, lie down on bad/couch and go for it. :D

[exitseven]

He will learn by doing. Just be nice to him and let him know what you like. You don't have to be weird about it.

[HighValue]

Just try taking initiative more often at the beginning of the relationship so he has time to adjust.

[gabby100]

Guide him. like if he is rubbing your pussy , but is a little off gently move his hand to the best spot

[spartan55]

25 and not into sex yet? Why?

[Drumlin2001]

Has he got any experience?

[Drumlin2001]

What do you do? hold hands? Hug? Where's his comfort level?

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

Give him some experience. 😀👍

[WhyMe247]

Just teach him and experiment with him.

[fred_durst]

your signal is not obvious enough

[clemdenim]

Teach him, he is un written

[Anonymous]

You're not into having sexual intercourse yet?