My boyfriend & I have been dating for 8 years. We are in our mid 20’s. I’m almost done with college and so is he. He plans on purchasing a house but always speaks about his parents living in it as well. Personally, I disagree with this because I feel like newly weds should have privacy and be able to enjoy a new home / beginning alone. He says it will only be temporary until his parents retire in 3-5 years and leave to their home country, he also says he doesn’t want them to live in his aunts house. I still disagree because I firmly believe we should have our own space and privacy before we have kids. I’m aware that once you have kids you barely get any alone time.. who’s in the wrong? Me or him? He says I’m being selfish and making him choose between his parents and I.
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I don’t need you to agree with me. I don’t gain anything with that, no offense. He plans on purchasing a house. That is all I said and from there you implied it was going to be under his name only. We always talked about getting it under both our names and getting married.
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See that’s the thing, it sounds like I have it all.. but there’s more to it that I wish I can get into but I know what you or anyone else would tell me if I spoke about it..
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If he plans on purchasing a house and it’s in his name, he has all rights to what the rules are and such. If you don’t like it, you can find your own space and live there until they move out and you two can start a life together afterwards.
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Did his parents lose their house or something?
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