It has been nearly a decade since our split. Am I overthinking distant ex actions/words?

[Anonymous]

We recently met up & it resulted in an overnight stay. Since we both are single, not seeking attachments, & an hour away from each other; we agreed to a casual relationship. ---The thing is, K repeatedly said during sex he missed (you know).

While I admit we occasionally checked on each other over the years, at the time of my last relationship, we were not friends on social media. Once, I had missed K's call in the middle of the night. I inquired the following morning what it was regarding, & his response was to "apologize for calling because he was drunk, got into his feelings, etc & to forget about it."

I didn't press it as I didn't care, because of my then relationship with W. At one point, I swiftly blocked K after he made derogatory remarks about W that were without provocation.

My question, I wonder, if there is more there than K leads on?

SN: A year later, post breakup with W, I unblocked K & we continued occasional correspondence to the present.

[20yearsolder]

He just wants to keep having sex with you until something different comes along. Here's my question to you, are you receptive to you two getting back together? If you're not then don't worry about his intentions. If you want to keep banging then do that