Partner dreamt I am cheating on him?

[Anonymous]

My partner dreamt I am cheating on him, and today he sounded a little insecure and asked me if I was going to see that guy, etc. After he said it was a joke and that I can just go out and I shouldn’t take him seriously. But I don’t feel like it was a joke

Normally he is not jealous like that, and I do everything and he is not possesive at all.

But I feel very sad that he is feeling like that today. I can relate because I am an overthinker, a worrier and it is a shit feeling. I was supossed to go out but now I actually would prefer to just stay with him and chill me and him.

Should I stay home or would that just be too much?

[Ironmunkee]

If you care about him you make an effort and stay with him. It's a terrible feeling and you can help alleviate it by spending time with him. Leaving now would just make his insecurity grow.

To the guy who said "you shouldn't be penalized for his insecurity" . . . thats so stupid. It's not a competition, you're not competing with each other you're supposed to be together and there for each other.

[noohair]

You have learned a valuable lesson. The male ego is as fragile as an egg. Once cracked it does not fix well. Be very carful what you say. Some games women play can destroy a good relationship.

[20yearsolder]

Go do what was planned. You shouldn't be penalized for his insecurity. Tell him you love him and you would never cheat and then go out