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Maybe ask him what he's been watching on youtube? Given a couple years ago I'd say maybe he's transferring his cheating, maybe your doing something suspect, so on and so forth.
With a minority of women being so very popular on shows like fresh and fit, I can 100% see where that would make a lot of guys paranoid and insecure about the women they have though.
Maybe to save your relationship, just recommend he take a break from that for a while if he is watching it, or maybe he had a friend who got cheated on, that is rough, no one wants to get cucked, well, few enough do that it isn't worth mentioning. Instead of reassuring, maybe ask more why he would feel that way.
You've got to find a solution, otherwise it could doom your relationship, if there's no trust, that's like a tree without roots.
Cheating dreams may be symptomatic of underlying unmet needs in your relationship. According to experts, cheating dreams can often be traced back to emotional dissatisfaction, sexual dissatisfaction, or unresolved feelings about a past infidelity.
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It's like a mix of what everyone said so far: paranoia, some would think he cheated on you so his guilt is getting to him, maybe you do deserve better. Mostly it can mean many things. Maybe he thinks he's not good enough in bed for you. I've heard different reasons but the main two is fear he's not doing enough to satisfy you or he cheated/thought of cheating on you and he feels guilty. You can do everything in the world to try to convince him, but his own conscience is what the issue is.
Many guys, myself included, love it when their girlfriend cheats on them. I know that probably sounds strange, but that's the way a lot of guys are.
Typically it's a subconscious fear bubbling to the surface. What concerns me is he tricked you into letting him go through your phone. Do you have equal access to his phone?
wow look at the character assassinations smh
Maybe he was cheated on in the past? Or maybe he's dealing with something psychologically taxing he hasn't addressed.
What's the deal with people automatically telling women THEY deserve better? This guy is insecure because there's so many cheating women nowadays.
Maybe he's insecure and fears losing you , if so that'll play on his mind during sleeping
Because deep inside he knows
You deserve better...
Maybe it's his fantasy to see you having sex with other guys?
May be some sub-conscious fear.
Because he's insecure.
He secretly wants to be cuckold
Some kind of internal paranoia going on.
Because he's very insecure.
Maybe he's kinda cuck and wants it to happen
Did he cheat on you?
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