People who think dreams don't signify anything, you're wrong! I've studied psychology for many years, and dreams are definitely one of my favorite topics. There are four stages of sleep, and then there's REM. When you dream in the first four stages, you dream about past events. When you dream in REM (this is the stage of sleep where your dreams are the most vivid), your dreams are based on the future. That doesn't mean you can "tell the future", it just means that there's something you want to achieve/problem-solve, or you might be having issues with friends/boyfriend/family; so your dreams are finding solutions for you on "what-to-do-next" kind of future.
When you say you're dreaming of your boyfriend cheating/breaking-up with you, it simply means that there's something/someone you're close to that you are afraid of being detached from; that person/thing might not even be your boyfriend! Your dreams most likely use your boyfriend because it's what your mind wants to see. I wouldn't be worried, honestly. It doesn't mean it's going to happen, it's just because you're disturbed about something else that's happened in your life - you're taking it out on your boyfriend.
Have you done something wrong (like cheating) in your relationship? Because that would also explain it... If you do something and feel guilty from it, chances are you will dream about it - but as if someone else is doing that to you.
Hope this makes sense :/
It's so hard explaining how dreams work.
First think about whether or not you were afraid that he was going to cheat or dump you before you started to have those dreams. Dreams sometimes reflect how you feel.
If not that, dreams are just dreams. If it's bothering you, talk to your boyfriend about it, he'll either comfort you and assure your it's not going to happen or break up with you there and then. :P Just joshing. [:
But seriously, if it's really bothering you and putting doubt in your mind about your relationship with him, please to discuss it with him. :] He should be understanding towards it.
Best of luck! I hope everything goes well. [:
In reality dreams aren't supposed to mean anything, but I've had dreams that seemed very real and then ended up happening. I don't even mean dejavu. I mean everything that happened in the dream happened in real life. This doesn't happen all the time obviously, but it's still weird that it happens at all. My best advice to you would be that if you have a gut feeling about your boyfriend cheating on you (dreams aside), then he probably is or is going to. We have instincts for a reason. Hope this helps! (:
I have weird dreams that don't make any sense. I don't know why. But the funny thing is - when I was a kid I'd have nightmares where something bad was gonna happen, then it did and it scared me to waking up.
But lately, I somehow feel like I'm in CONTROL of my dreams. It's like something happens and I respond to it with an action that ends the dream.
I don't know ... I felt like giving my take because when you're scared, nervous, or full of worry about things in your life, it might carry on to the subconscious level and give you a nightmare. But when you're content, feeling good with yourself, and have your sh*t together that makes you a more confident person naturally, the nightmares don't haunt you.
So my guess is this - you're insecure about your boyfriend. You worry that he's possibly cheating on you. And now, you got the envision coming about in your sleep.
So do yourself a favor and stop worrying about him doing it. Because if it just so turns out that he did cheat on you, it'll be the end of the relationship and you'll move on.
You worry because your dreams are bad? Dreams are just a random collection of thoughts in your mind while you sleep. And they typically revolve around you, your feelings about yourself or for those around you. It's not like your brain is telling you that your boyfriend WILL cheat on you. It's just processing your worried feelings and creating random images and thoughts related to it. Chances are you were really stressed out lately about something that might or might not have involved your boyfriend, and you went to bed worried out of your mind.
I wouldn't look too much into it. Relax more, and have a better time around your boyfriend, or else these warrantless feelings about your dreams will consume you. Good luck!
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Relax. Dreams are dreams. There's no sense to them, there's nothing you can do about them. Just remember that they are mental images conjured up by your exhausted brain.
On the other hand, if you're entertaining subconscious fears that he might break up with you or cheat on you, that might be what's causing these dreams to occur. You might want to talk to him about this and let him know what's going on. If he loves you he'll understand, and the two of you can work together to solve this problem.
Remember, communication is key.
Dreams can sometimes come from things hidden from our conscious mind...Do you maybe feel insecure in the relationship? Maybe you REALLY like him and you're afraid he doesn't like you as much as the other way around? Maybe you see a future with him and the thought of losing him makes you really insecure? Just something to think about.
If you want to try tp avoid bad dreams think about something good before bed. Have a cuo of tea, do some guided imagery and think positive thoughts. If it keeps happening tell your boyfriend in a joking way and see if there is any reaction. Sometimes a women's intuition is right.
Well sometimes dreams are a manifestation of an inner fear or desire. And sometimes just thinking about something long enough before you going to bed leaks through in a dream. So I guess you gotta figure out which category your dreams might fall under. Keep in mind, if you're always worrying about dreaming about him cheating, you're probably gonna have more dreams of him cheating lol.
I agree with Jager66. When I started falling for this girl I went out with for a few weeks, I started having bad dreams about losing her, whether it be her dieing or her cheating on me. But I wouldn't worry.
not to scare you, but I had a dream that my boyfriend broke up with me, and 4 days later , he did. I think I was just noticing the subconscious signs he was giving me and it ended up oogling up my subconscious and getting into my dreams
It could be because you guys got into a little agruement & that could be the reason why you keep haveing these dream, you may feel upset when you wake up because you actually love your boyfriend but if you don't really feel anything for him anymore, then I say you leave him hun ):
It's fear of something bad. You clearly don't want to lose him and your mind is subconsciously telling you that.
Dreams are just dreams, I've had some crazy dreams but they never came true, don't worry about it
because youve become emotionaly attached to him and are now vulnerable
You're can see the future! Break up with him before he cheats on you and then dumps you!
did he do something in real life that makes you worried
Your subconscious is telling you he's no good.
your stressin way too much girl
I don't know, hope those aren't premonitions.
he no good for ya hun
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