Is this bad about me?

[Anonymous]

Ok, so for most of my life, I wouldn't say I like confrontation. I’m not a chicken. If someone yells at me, I’m more in shock, but eventually, if something continues, I will snap. But my whole life, I’ve been easygoing. I really don’t do anything negative towards people. I had people admit they were jealous and made my life a living hell because of it. That caused me not to be patient when it comes to people. Especially love. If I’m dating someone and they continuously get mad for dumb reasons at the beginning of the relationship, I lose interest immediately. I like don’t want to talk to you anymore. I can’t take people being rude to me for no reason. Is this bad? Cause I really drop friendships quick now when people start being rude.

[SueShe]

No, turning your back to people that are rude to you, that are uncivilized and lack the most fundamental education is not bad. It is a quality because you avoid being dragged into something that is negative and will never have a positive ending.

People like to be around those that ooze positive thinking and that are fun to be around with. They don't like those that rehash negative feelings and never smile.

Find yourself a hobby or find yourself a club where you can meet people that share the same interests as you do. You are likely to find other people that think the way you do and finding friends that way is much better than to stay at home being a bitter and lonely person.

[Asker]

I already have friends, kids, and family. I agree with you. I don't put much faith into new people that try to enter my life. But you are absolutely right.

[Siren777]

I don't think you should feel bad for having boundaries. Why should you put up with this type of behavior of others. You do give them a chance but if it's continuing to be the same... I would leave too. I don't have time for drama and bs.

[Asker]

Thanks. I agree

[boobliker]

i say don't suffer fools and it much the same, others may not understand it but that's life we are not all the same that what's us who we are good on you stand up for your self

[Avicenna]

Giving up too soon on friendships or relationships is bad

[Asker]

You’re right. I just don't like rude people once they get to know me. But I will work on this.

[Anonymous]

It is not bad to separate yourself from negative people. How fast are you dropping you friendships?

[Asker]

It's all about the vibe. My goal is if this person can make it to three months without pissing me off, then we're friends from here on out.