Does this make me a bad person?

[Anonymous]

Hi this is my first question here and also the sole reason why I'm here.
I'm in a long distance relationship for 5 years now and naturally there is no sex life unless she visits (i. e once a year) . This lack of action NOW, only lately, has been pushing me towards Tinder and Bumble looking for hookups. I get the yes and I proceed to ghost the match because I dont wanna cheat. I don't know what I'm doing or what I should be doing or if I should do something differently.

[Secret6620]

If you're not satisfied in a long distance relationship then you probably shouldn't be in one.

Faithfulness and communication is essential in a long lasting relationship. If you feel the urge to cheat then end the relationship and find someone that's more avaliable.

Long distance relationships are not for everyone. Especially those who frequently have a wondering eye.

[Secret6620]

Super opinion! Yay

[Anonymous]

Yes, it makes you a bad person. Once you are with someone, kindly don't cheat on them. If you plan to do, break up with them first and go with your Tinder hookups but forget your present girl forever and never go back to her as you never deserve her if you do like this. If you really can't control yourself and still want your present girl, marry her so you can see her daily and get into deep physical relationship with her

[Asker]

Makes sense what you're saying. Just too young and not financially independent yet to marry. But I get your point.

[In_Trance]

You lost me at long distance relationship

[Asker]

Yea I mean it didn't start off as one. Just ended up in different places eventually.

[In_Trance]

It always does

[Iron_Man]

Don’t do that