Of course it is not normal.
Anyone that does pretend that this is a normal behavior has no idea about proper education.
If I was a mother and I had a boyfriend that asks my daughter if she wants to purchase pornographic content, I would simply kick that toxic person out of my house. He would have less than one hour to give me back the key and to pack his belongings.
It is not tolerable that a boyfriend interferes with the education of your own children. Furthermore, I consider that his behavior is immoral, even if my daughter is an adult at age 18.
I do not tolerate people that have no education and that misbehave. Those are the kind of toxic people that I totally abhor.
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Probably depends on how open minded you all are and how often do you talk about sex and stuff. There is a chance he meant it as a joke. But only if he does that all the time and when you are around. If not - get rid of him asap
I think there's a few things to mention here.
Are we as Westerners more puritanical than we deem ourselves to be? Arguably, sexuality is an absolutely a normal thing, as if eating. Why do we make it something perverse.
In these dynamics there can be an issue of the mother feeling insecure with regard to the attention that her daughter receives. This is something that can be explored.
Lastly, the guy could simply just be very creepy.
This is where communication and the type of relationship you have together comes into play.
@SueShe Sorry to copy your name in, I just thought I would do so because we have almost completely different views on the matter :)
That’s really unsettling and kinda creepy.
Here’s the question we all want to know. Since your beau just went to the sex shop, and in light of this new behavior of his in regards to your daughter, did he take that trip to the shop for nothing?
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I think you should be more concerned what her reply would be. But then she is 18 and is free to mess up her own life with her own decisions.
Creeps like single mothers with daughters because they are less likely to get put in their place by the father. If she’s uncomfortable you should be too. He is a boyfriend, that’s your child forever.
Pedoes are attracted to single moms. You always have to be on the lookout for this shit when you’re a single mom. They know there’s no dad protecting the child
Yikes, does not sound like a good situation to me. But she is an adult so not sure what you can do. May be there is nothing there, but you should ask him.
Sluts are not allowed in my house, if a daughter comes home with a sex toy, I throw her out, simple.
Yeah it is weird and I don't think he did just because he's such a good man that's always thinking about others needs. In any case he's not the one who should be buying this kind of stuff for your daughter. He's a perv
Sounds like something someone would do if they were trying to groom
a girl for future sex.So what? 18 is a legal age, so I don't see a problem.
Of course it's wrong what the fuck is this guy's problem
You really have to ask if this is wrong?
Yeah thats not normal
His intentions are really bad
Yep it is weird. It's a sex shop not groceries.
yeah it's kinda weird
Uh yeah…sounds like grooming.
That’s awkward and the fact he owns a sex shop
Tell him you like toys too
Is it wrong? Really?
Kinky
Yeah, thats unusual
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