When do you know that you love someone vs you tolerate someone? Have you ever been in dichotomy like that before?

[poneglyphs]

Is it common to be in a relationship like that?

[RobT312]

No not at all. If you only tolerate someone, that’s not much of a relationship to me anyways. There are people that I do just tolerate…. I tend to keep interaction with those people to a minimum. So if I’m in a relationship I need to love them and want to be with them

[exitseven]

Wow, this is a really good question. I do not know the answer to this. Relationships are so complicated and you can get so confused and turned around that you don';t know which end is up.

[poneglyphs]

Hehe that's great even you don't know the answer 😊😊😊

[exitseven]

@poneglyphs I told a girl one time that she was the first girl in almost two years that I could stand being around. That is why this question resonates with me.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[poneglyphs]

Got you bud 😎

[NathanDavis]

to tolerate something or someone... means you do not want it, or them at all, you do tolerate because of convenience, or some other twisted reason, usually

and, simply put... love is NOTHING like that, lol

[RealMarek]

I ended up in a marriage with someone who hated me. It was mutual toleration at best. If you see red flags don’t hesitate to break up. Relationships can be difficult at times but they shouldn’t be that difficult.

[Fuentes]

I would not be just a waste of time to. only tolerate someone