So my girlfriend wanted me to come out and meet some of her friends and we were at the bar having a few drinks her friend Dan was standing at the bar ordering drinks and she was trying to get his attention and I noticed that she kept calling him babe instead of his name also before this happened she called him babe instead of his name which I asked her why and she said it was an accident and then literally 4 mins later that happened when she was calling for him again
we were all talking her Dan and I and Dan said he was going back to school to become a traveling nurse and she said that he should sell his house and could stay with him anytime he was back in the area which I found very weird although they have been friends for 12 years or more so I understand they are close but also he is widowed and single and I don’t feel like that’s something you should ask another man to do when you are in a relationship! He is retired and in his 50s I’m sure he doesn’t need the help and I am 29 and she is 37.
I looked irritated and she said what’s wrong and I said I don't know you keep calling him babe and told him he could move in to your house then she said she didn’t mean to call him that after doing it 5 times and that she didn’t tell him to move in but I was right there when he said where would I stay and she said I don't know in the basement or something? I don't know it just made me uncomfortable and didn’t seem right but she also did call the dog babe earlier lol so I don't know but doesn’t make me feel like a special person to her at all when everyone is called the same thing how would any of you feel about something like this? Do you think she has a crush on him or just good friends? She always goes the distance to see me and stay with me for days at a time vise versa and always wants to talk to me or plan things with me and introduce me to her friends and family! We been dating for 4 months going on 5
we were all talking her Dan and I and Dan said he was going back to school to become a traveling nurse and she said that he should sell his house and could stay with him anytime he was back in the area which I found very weird although they have been friends for 12 years or more so I understand they are close but also he is widowed and single and I don’t feel like that’s something you should ask another man to do when you are in a relationship! He is retired and in his 50s I’m sure he doesn’t need the help and I am 29 and she is 37.
I looked irritated and she said what’s wrong and I said I don't know you keep calling him babe and told him he could move in to your house then she said she didn’t mean to call him that after doing it 5 times and that she didn’t tell him to move in but I was right there when he said where would I stay and she said I don't know in the basement or something? I don't know it just made me uncomfortable and didn’t seem right but she also did call the dog babe earlier lol so I don't know but doesn’t make me feel like a special person to her at all when everyone is called the same thing how would any of you feel about something like this? Do you think she has a crush on him or just good friends? She always goes the distance to see me and stay with me for days at a time vise versa and always wants to talk to me or plan things with me and introduce me to her friends and family! We been dating for 4 months going on 5
