Why do I feel that I deserve an extremely abusive relationship verbally and physically?

[Anonymous]

I’m concerned about myself because I have ongoing fantasies of someone hurting me, but it’s all I even really know. I never found someone who loves/values me no matter what. Is this a dangerous path I’m going down?

[JustinTheGreat]

It’s definitely a weird thing to wish upon yourself…have you tried maybe talking to a therapist? There could be a reason why you think you deserve pain.

[Anonymous]

It's not that abnormal really for a woman. I mean you dont want just any guy to be your master but just the guy you love right?