Is it true that if your boyfriend talks about another girl’s looks a lot?

[Anonymous]

That’s he may be secretly attracted to her? My boyfriend is always criticising one of my female friend’s looks; what she wears, her body etc to me. He’s always saying negative things about her looks out of the blue in private to me even though she’s pretty. It makes me jealous, but it’s all negative?

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What if he says negative things and criticises her?

[Birdlegs]

No. I talk about guy’s appearances too that doesn’t mean I’m attracted to them.

[Guccigabbana18]

In my experience, it’s sometimes true. Either the boyfriend is very judgmental and therefore insecure, trying to raise your confidence by telling you other girls aren’t pretty, or is hiding a secret attraction to the other girl. All of them are 🚩🚩

[Wise4myage]

No, not in this instance, but make sure he knows it bothers you.

[TheLastRhodesian]

No, it's a technique used to lower women's self-esteem, I use it too.

[Asker]

But she’s not there? So who’s self esteem is he trying to lower

[Guy13]

Well…DUH‼️
🙄

[Asker]

So it’s true? Wtf