My boyfriend is a stoner?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years. When the relationship gets longer, we stop getting swayed by butterflies and such and we start to think about our future. My boyfriend is addicted to weed, he is dependant on it and says he finds it hard to sleep without it but certain nights he can go to sleep without it too. I can tell that his health is starting to get affected too, he is getting thinner by the day. And whenever I think about our future, I have no hope. I really love him but I am hurt because of what he is doing. I don't want to make him choose between me and weed but I wish he would at least limit the consumption. Can anyone give me an advice on how I could improve my boyfriend's health? I haven't actually talked to him about it instead I would just ask him to not smoke on a certain night and to slowly limit his smoking. But I don't think it's helping. I would just cry with the thought of us maybe having no future. But I love him and even if I were to leave him, I at least want to help him improve his health as possible as I can. Any advice?

[Anonymous]

He's addicted. You won't "change" him if he doesn't want to change this, and I'm betting he doesn't. So you have a decision to make, do you really want him as your partner? Do you want that in your life? But again, you can't do anything to help him if he doesn't want it himself. HE has to be the one to help himself. It sounds "cold" I know when you love him, but it's not and it's the truth. He's a drug addict (weed is a drug!). He HAS to choose between you or the weed eventually. Don't prolong it, it'll only get worse and get harder on you the longer you wait.

[Anonymous]

Just say you want him to quit smoking.
I’m sure he smoked before you dated, and during. So why shouldn’t he give up his habit now that it’s bothering you?

[Iron_Man]

Take him to rehab even if you have a get a group of people just take him