Do you really think humans are made for other people or is it a myth?

[Justneedtokno]

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Are we made to be in relationships or can we just be alone. Are humans really made to have soulmates and pieces of ourselves or are we a whole person by her self

[MrOracle]

The ability to even ask this question is only a recent phenomenon. Prior to about 1900, only the toughest of men could survive alone, and women could only survive alone in a handful of cities and really only if they were very wealthy or if they devoted themselves to the church (as nuns) and were protected by the church. Long-term survival DEPENDED on having a partner and having children - children were literally your retirement plan, because no one else was going to take care of you in old age or if you were sick or injured.

And it's really only been post-WWII that women on a large scale could survive outside of a relationship - there were always a handful who did, but the vast majority could not until the western world had been made so safe and so egalitarian that it became possible. It's certainly not the "natural order of the world" - it's a very recent anomaly if you look at human history. And make no mistake, while more men *could* survive alone than women, they were still at a HUGE disadvantage without a partner, so the vast majority of men got married.

What so many people don't realize is that so much of the strife between men and women these days is manufactured. It may sound crazy, but it really happened and plenty of proof exists. Even before WWII, there was a huge conflict between the west's system of government with individual rights and freedoms, and the Marxist/Communist system being pushed by the east. Had Hitler not risen and been such a threat that the US and the USSR were forced into an uneasy alliance to defeat them, you'd have seen the USSR and the west in a "cold war" much earlier. But post WWII, it didn't take the USSR long to figure out that they were never going to be able to defeat the west militarily or economically, and this was REALLY understood by the early 60s. The USSR put up a good front with their aerospace programs, but they knew they were bankrupting themselves in the process, so they switched gears.

Instead of focusing so much on military or economic defeats, they started to really ramp up SUBVERSION programs. In the late 80s, there was a KGB colonel who defected, and he explained that the KGB only focused 15% of their foreign budget on spying - 85% was spent on subversion. What is subversion? It's manipulating people under a false disguise. It's like a wolf putting on sheep's clothing and then telling the other sheep to leave the safety of the pen and to go out into the woods, where the other wolves could easily catch and eat them. The naïve sheep think that the wolf is another sheep that's looking out for their best interest, but that wolf is manipulating them to their doom.

Marxist activists took over the Feminist movement (and the Racial Equality movement) in the 60s, and they kicked out any Feminists who wouldn't adopt Marxist goals, and then they used the disguise of Feminism to push Marxism. Many policies they pushed women to adopt and then push onto everyone else are clearly harmful to women and lead to much worse outcomes for women, but as long as enough women believe their disguise, they'll push the agenda and not ask too many questions.

Women being alone is NOT in women's best interests. Sure, it can be a lot of fun for women in their 20s, but once they get older, most women are horribly unhappy and depressed without a family, and when they get to retirement age, without a family, they are REALLY unhappy and are often very vulnerable. Consider that 25% of all women (and 47% of avowed feminists) are on anti-depressants. That's an insane statistic, but it shows how the outcomes are NOT to women's long-term advantage.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Purpose is a myth.
Creationism is a myth.
Compatibility is not.
Humans evolved, we were not made, not in the conventional sense anyway.

There isn't any particular thing anyone was "made for".

There are billions of people though, the odds of none of them being a perfect fit is so low that it might as well be impossible.

[TheSpaceGnome]

People are a whole person by themselves, but most do not like being alone, and most prefer company from like minded people of the opposite sex. And when they find that, most prefer to keep it, so they get married. Very few people are uninterested in relationships, and those people are happier alone.

Souls aren't real, and there is far more than one option for a perfect match.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Not sure what you mean… Do you mean like soulmates, twin flames, or things like that?


Because, humans are made for other humans. People are made for other people. Humans are not made for animals or other living things… Humans cannot have relationships like that with animals, or other forms of life besides human life. Lol.

[jeemm]

I don't know what that even means. Like soulmates? I think there are very compatible people in the thousands all across the planet and meeting one of them feels like it's fate or something.

Most people just don't have the chance to meet with 7.5 billion people.

[DaveToo]

Not everyone is mentally, physically, or emotionally geared for a soulmate kind of relationship. Some that have had that kind of relationship and lost it, for whatever reason, live out their lives single and alone.

[Yucy_Gluttony]

Made for other people? What do you mean by that? We don't live to fulfill someone else's purpose, we are just Made.

[Guy13]

I think we are uniquely designed and there is one for each of us

[Echosoul]

Biologically we are programmed to mate as our method of reproduction is not solo.

[Anonymous]

We evolved but are evolving is not random. Just like a man becoming a doctor after busting his ass in med school isn't random.

[Jamie05rhs]

I think relationships are an amazingly beautiful thing -- if done correctly -- and they can really enrich a person's life in many ways.

[Imkass]

I think we’re not even supposed to do anything we were put on this planet but no one knows why yet

[ImNoOne111]

No human is made for another. Thats why we banned slavery, right?

[NathanDavis]

"every choice you make... makes you"

[Tiptoetamm]

I'm not sure how you mean?

[exitseven]

Kt is how most life forms have evolved.

[exitseven]

REUpdste:- Humans are social creatures. They need some form of companionship. Why do people say solitary confinement is cruel punishment?

[gabby100]

Well who else are they made for?

[Agape93]

It's a myth