Are arguments / complaints normal in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

Let's say you have only just met the person, at which point of the relationship would you consider it to be normal?

Also, would you say that having arguments is a good way to stop pretending to be someone you're not and get comfortable in a relationship? Since everyone typically tries to put on their best behaviour by being polite when they first meet someone.

[Apple1996]

Very normal especially in the beginning of relationships and marriage. Use to fight with my hubby all the time but not anymore. Found out we are both way too crazy when we fight so it's best to avoid any triggers that'll cause fighting.

[scooogy]

Why did I imagine you superior in your relationship when reading this? 😌

[Apple1996]

@scooogy it's true I'm the more crazy one

[scooogy]

@Apple1996 I rather thought you'd let him argue into your ass 😌

[moonpie89]

It's normal but not early on when you're trying to get to know each other

[slatyb]

I've been with my wife for several years and we don't have fight. Occasionally we do become frustrated with the other's behavior but we're always sympathetic to each other.

[NathanDavis]

yes, some arguments and complaints are normal in all kinds of relationships