I am dating a girl since 3 years. We both have jobs. We want to take it to the next level, marriage. But she is scared of our future. Your opinions?

[Anonymous]

She thinks we should save money, buy our own house and a car before getting married. I know this is possible but it will take years. I don't want to be a old father.

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I will discuss with her and I will try to convince her. If she is adamant then I will date another girl bcoz I can't wait for her too long. I want to start a family and make babies.

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Have you two talked about whether you both want kids? Maybe start there.

[Asker]

Of course we both want kids after marriage. She is over thinking and worried about financial security. 😞

[Anonymous]

It's best to be stable. Trust me.
Also I'm 32 and my dads 66 we are good over here. It's the perfect age. Dont doubt yourself. You'll be okay

[Asker]

So you are saying that we shouldn't get married?

[Opinion Owner]

To wait to have kids

[Opinion Owner]

Set a plan and follow through

[Asker]

Ok, We can grow rich together after marriage. Right? I want to enjoy my sex life and I want to have kids before it's too late.

[Opinion Owner]

It's rare for people to get rich. Just get happy. And you'll enjoy your lives more

[Asker]

Yes I agree with you. But my girlfriend will never understand this. She wants what she wants.

[ArtemisSilver]

Tell her to pick one of the three and be content

[Asker]

Ok, why should we need all that before marriage? We can grow rich together after marriage. Right?

[jimmy2]

No house buying till bubble breaks

[TheReturnOfTheK1ng]

Don't get married.