Do you think you understand your partner's needs, and how to keep them happy and interested?

[Msputiton]

[ohshee]

I'm not in a relationship at the moment

I don't know if you'll ever understand fully your partner's needs but I mean basically they're the same needs that you would have for yourself I would think

It's kind of weird when I see questions on here about people in relationships they've been dating for 3 weeks a month 6 months and they're already arguing

Every relationship I've ever been in the first argument might come in three to four years

So that tells me a lot
So I mean and understanding your partner you have to prove how much you love each and every day and that is by being real

The moment that you lie the moment you try to get over on the moment you disrespect in any manner the other person there's going to be a conflict because they're trying to tell you what the fuck are you doing

So I think that's number one on the understanding of your partner treat them the way you want to be treated you're in a relationship to grow together to become one together once you do something stupid you're adding another obstacle to put roadblocks up to the happiness that you're both looking for that's going to cause an argument and everything starts going downhill from there

Understanding my partner is understanding myself if I'm not going to like something then my partner's not going to like it either if my partner is going to give me a Feeling I wanted to be a beautiful feeling not and angry Ardennes iety or disbelief if you make your partner feel a certain way in a negative manner there's always going to be a problem

Once you give your partner a reason to doubt you to not believe in you that's going to be a problem

So yes I believe that I can and I do understand but my partner needs and that is the exact same thing that I need that is Trust that is love that is respect that is happiness that is make them feel beautiful in every way you possibly can and by doing all this you create a happiness a bond you walk with your head eyes thinking I don't care what guys she's talking to I don't care is she's gone out on girls night I don't care if she spends the night at her girlfriend's house because I trust in I respect and I believe in her and once you don't have that 100% then you're in your mind and in your heart you start doubting everything and then that becomes a problem

I think all the above is the key that is number one do you have to have all the above first and then you can go to the little things like
Showing her how much you care buy little gifts are little notes are the way you make love to her whether it's totally making love in very very very slow deep motion as if you're floating. Or in different moments of time giving her what she wants that day because of her mood or whatever. By making love and Pounding the hell out of her when she wants it.
No matter how you do it it should all be 10 different every time
By giving her a bubble bath with an ocean sponge Thanksgiving her massage by letting her sleep in or letting her have her day

Doing your part to keep the house clean to cook dinner do you wash your car to do whatever you can do when you see that it needs to be done there's all kinds of things every single day

But just a little jesters maybe not with your voice but by the things that you like to do for her to show her how much you care respect and trust and love her
She likes to hear it sometimes but you have to show it to her to you have to prove it to her by the things that you do it's a little baby things that matter but make each day count make it stay different
You almost have to reinvent yourself every day and so many times that's a very good thing it's hard to be in a relationship because it takes work

Just listen to all the questions on here about and what makes the other person unhappy it's usually because they're not giving of themselves are there taking advantage of or they're lying they're doing stupid things when that happens you start making the other person start thinking wild and crazy thoughts

[Jaximus-Lion]

I could write a whole book about this 😋. I know and understand my partner's needs because i communicate and i pay attention. How to keep her happy? I am a chef, adventurous, playful, curious and can learn new things and do new things all the time which all that makes her happy and keeps he interested to stay with (and vice versa), together since 2009, married since 2012 . I use love potion in my cooking 😉

[Chiarac2003]

Yes that’s why I let him dictate everything… it’s exciting 4 both of us. We’re still in my training…. But best if he is fully in charge of me. I like asking permission

[melanieeeB]

Single, but yes I used to be pretty good at it but I would also communicate about or mutual needs too

[Msputiton]

That's a good quality

[mstbooblover]

That's a question everyone should ask themselves. I'm still wondering what I could have done to grasp a better understanding of my wife's needs while she was still alive. We were relatively happy, and we trusted each other for most things, but then, perfection is not from this world...

[LiamSawyer]

I believe I try my best to fulfil what you're asking about.

[Anonymous]

At this point I know his needs super well and I know exactly how to keep him happy/interested

[Mark987]

Yes.. communication is key. Talk to them and see if they are enjoying themselves

[motownplayer2000]

Yes. I do. Or I wouldn’t have been with her for that long

[moonpie89]

Somewhat yeah. Took time to figure it out but I cracked the code..

[humanearth]

Spend money on them and they are happy

[Blackcupcake]

I’m single, but if I would know, yes…

[Amur8711]

Never stop learning about them!

[boggboss]

Pretty sure yeah

[jahaims]

I know I do

[jasco]

I am learning