Do you think romantic relationships often do more harm than good?

[musicloverr8]

It seems the pain of love takes a deeper toll on me than the joys of love. (Romantic love). it always is so damaging. I learn from it, and it makes me stronger, but the negative emotions of love are so hard.

yes

no

not sure

[ohshee]

No after you break up and you let it all go and you find yourself again you have to look at the pictures being honest that you just now experienced a deeper part of love a deeper part of you and that I welcome I also know Love Hurts but if you love that other person and they don't love you you got to let it go I mean this is a part of life life is an experience and to find the deepest most powerful part of love is to experience it every time you experience a deeper part of love you grow tremendously anytime you experience anything deeper than what you have already experienced it it is very powerful you become a whole different person with whole different looks and values on everything most of the time 1 month 2 months 3 months before you have that break up you know what's going to happen they're sometimes it's a very beginning of a relationship you know it's going to happen before it even happens you question it that you decide to keep going trying to make it work thinking that you're full of crap that that would never happen we all know what's going to happen before it happens but nobody ever listens to it I understand where you're coming from and I respect that it's happened to me even but we make it through it we take as long as we want to take we sit on our pity pot as long as we want to reevaluate things we think things over and over and over in our head because we're trying to learn some people say that's the pain of it it probably might be it's also you separating every little detail to grow as a person to suck all that energy how did that experience to make it the best and then your next experience you can take that with you the positive and make that new relationship even better no matter what it is in life that we do it's the experience of it it makes us a better person we're all here to experience everything share that experience keep somebody that experience show somebody that experience
There are so many things in life that I can say I'm smart at I am good at but when it boils down to it I know nothing I'm not that smart because every experience there's a better one and a bigger one waiting there is a new outlook when it happens there's a change of life when it happens so no matter how negative your breakup is believe me the positive that you get out of it if you allow yourself to is very beautiful

[SolitarySolace]

Absolutely. Which is exactly why I have up on love and romantic relationships. I've come to learn that I don't NEED it in order to live my own life.

[dustybiker]

It hurts that much because you loved that much. It’s better to have had it than not.

[LazerBean]

Only if you do it wrong.

[motownplayer2000]

See people go into romantic relationships thinking it’d going to be like what they see in shows and tv.. just like how people say porn Warps the perception of sex for men and women. These romantic movies and books warp the perception of romance and relationships. Relationships are work and very hard work. But rewarding work if you do it right. Expectations need to be at a healthy level to accomplish success. And equality is the best way to achieve long standing success and keep the other person honest and accountable

[Sam_The_Savage]

Love. Relationship. Is pure scams...
It's designed to fool people.

[TheSpaceGnome]

No if it's the right type of person.

[Aurora1010]

Sometimes yeah

[jahaims]

Yeah, but only because most people are morons.