Guys, what are you thinking when your girlfriend/wife is mad/yells at you?

[Anonymous]

[kinggeorge007]

Depends on the reason (s).

All in all yelling isn't the way to go. In fact I hate yelling. An intelligent discussion/argument is what I prefer. Lay down your stance and logically reason them and then listen to your counterpart with attention. This goes both ways. And only then you two should look for solutions, together.

That's how you do that.

I know this sounds like a bit hypothetical way of doing things. But I assure you, that works. And it's how it should be.

[caring__1]

I think it's time to relabel her as my ex-girlfriend. I wouldn't choose to be with someone who chooses to yell rather than communicate. She'll know from the start I'm not going to hear her better because she chooses to increase her volume.

[Anonymous]

It depends. If she's being irrational, I question her mental health. If she's making sense, I will reflect on my behavior... and run it by my closest friends... then apologize and make changes. However, I have found that females can just emotionally dump on you and act like it's perfectly normal...

[jahaims]

That would depend why

[Anonymous]

I’m thinking she isn’t worth this bullshit.